I'm 14 years old and I'm a girl. I've been into masturbating for about a year now. Just recently my boyfriend and I started talking about sex. We've been dating for almost a year now. He's ready, but I'm a little nervous. I'm still a virgin. I want to, but I wanna know how to give myself pleasure before I let him. I've tried the shower head, it didn't work. I can't get any sex toys. I can't use food. And I can't use an electrical toothbrush. Is there anything else I can use? He really wants to and I don't wanna keep him waiting for too long. If there's anything I need to know, please tell me.
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Hi, first of all if your boyfriend really lover you he will wait until your ready no matter how long that is.
The best way to masturbate is to use your fingers to explore your whole body and to softly caress your breasts and nipples then move down to your vagina and softly stroke your labia then move on to your clit and start to stroke it slowly with a yet finger then slowly build up speed :-)
The best way to masturbate is to use your fingers to explore your whole body and to softly caress your breasts and nipples then move down to your vagina and softly stroke your labia then move on to your clit and start to stroke it slowly with a yet finger then slowly build up speed :-)
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Are you using your imagination to thinking its a guy you really like doing it to you?
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Yes. I imagine my boyfriend is doing it. Cause he always talks about how he really wants to. So I don't wanna keep him waiting.
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If you haven't found how to turn your self on yet and achieve orgasm through through masturbation then your not ready to engage in a sexual relationship with your bf yet.
Have you and your bf even thought about contraception yet and what about if your messing around together leads to more are you going to be able to stop yourselves and use a condom before its to late?
Have you and your bf even thought about contraception yet and what about if your messing around together leads to more are you going to be able to stop yourselves and use a condom before its to late?
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We've talked about using condoms and being careful. We're not ready to be parents and we're not going to be either! But we will be careful! That's why I'm trying to find out how to give myself pleasure before I let him. So if you can help, please do!
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I have told you the easiest way to get a good feeling and a good orgasm if you can't own a vibrator, if your getting nothing from it then your not doing something right.
I would say its because your not relaxed enough why its not working.
When your alone in take a nice relaxing bath then in to your room lock your door lay on your bed naked and try again. :-)
I would say its because your not relaxed enough why its not working.
When your alone in take a nice relaxing bath then in to your room lock your door lay on your bed naked and try again. :-)
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I think you are not ready for sexual activity yet. You are only a 14 years old girl. Think about pregnancy, STD, HIV-AIDS, herpes, etc. etc. You could ruin your live at early age. Wait till you get older please. I know 4 girls who ruined their lives after sex.
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We're not going to have full on sex! And if we do, we're gonna use a condom! He just wants to give me pleasure. And I want him to too! But I wanna be able to give myself pleasure first! All I wanna know is how to do that? My boyfriend has been asking me all day if I'm ready yet, but I keep saying no. Cause I don't know how to give myself pleasure first! So please just help!
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Pleasuring yourself is very important before someone else give it you. On the other hand, the condom is not safe, many girls get pregnant even if they used condoms. I think like other people on this forum you must be very careful at your young age. Sex is for adults, You might regret what you do. How old is your boyfriend?
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Hi, if you want to go into condoms not being safe then you can say that about all contraception as all of it is only 99% effective and there are so many things you don't think about that prevents contraception from working.
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