I'm 14 years old and so is my boyfriend. We have been dating for 7 months and we've basically done everything but sex. We both really want to do it but I'm a bit worried because I'm not sure what to expect. Does it hurt? Is there a lot of blood?
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Hi to me it sounds like your not yet ready to go all the way if your having to ask these questions you are also still very young yet and it is illegal to have sexual intercourse below the legal age what ever that be in your country and can lead to your boyfriend getting prosecuted.
Wait till your older and your find it will be worth it and more enjoyable :-)
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Yeah, it definitely does not sound like you're ready... you're only 14, you may think you want to but in the end it's not worth it at this age. I'm 14 and honestly I think I would want to have sex, but then I come to my senses and realize all the harm that could come from it. There are TONS of things that could go wrong for just a little bit of pleasure! you could get pregnant (even if using a condom or some other type of birth control) you could get STD's, infections (bc you're so young) and you could wind up seriously regretting it. So just think about all the consequences before you act and please don't rush into anything with your boyfriend! There 're still other things you could do with him, try using some toys or just keep doing what you've been doing. There's no need to do more!
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You're way too young for sex, you're even too young to be doing what you're doing. It's not healthy and there are too many risks. STDs, cervical cancer, pregnancy, there are many consequences. Hollywood and the music industry glamorize sex and it's dangerous. Stop spending so much alone time with your boyfriend and play an instrument or take up a sport, spend more time with your friends. Enjoy what's left of your childhood (btw, you're technically still a child), believe me, you're so very young and you have the rest of your life ahead of you for such things. You literally can ruin your life. Sex in a commited, preferably married, relationship is a beautiful and amazing experience and expression of love. I promise, it will be worth the wait when you're older and really ready. Sex just for the sake of it can be a very empty experience and can have devastating results.
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