Hi people
im a very shy..special..boy i am 14 years old and i havnt masturbated or done anything of a sexual matter ..i still have a high voice and penis growth isnt good but im starting to get black hairs around below the bellow just up from the penis..from what i hear masturbating is fun and helps depression i have been in depression for awhile now and do councelling sessions
but thing is im too shy, i want a girlfriend badly also and im starting to get them feelings for girls and masturbating its just getting to do them things
help me
Thank you
Adam Purcell
im a very shy..special..boy i am 14 years old and i havnt masturbated or done anything of a sexual matter ..i still have a high voice and penis growth isnt good but im starting to get black hairs around below the bellow just up from the penis..from what i hear masturbating is fun and helps depression i have been in depression for awhile now and do councelling sessions
but thing is im too shy, i want a girlfriend badly also and im starting to get them feelings for girls and masturbating its just getting to do them things
help me
Thank you
Adam Purcell
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There is absolutley nothing wrong with what you posted at all. It is very ok to have feelings towards girls at your age. And from what you are describing is that you may be a late bloomer per say. You don't need to masturbate to be happy, and it is definitly not a proven depression helper. You are young and masturbation is a very personal thing. You will know when you are ready to take that step.
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Everyone develops at different rates, but girls and boys. There's nothing abnormal about your development at your age.
Don't feel like you need to rush into things, or do anything sexual because you feel like it's what you're "supposed to" do. Wait until you're ready, and comfortable, because if you rush into it when you're not ready, you'll be very nervous and unable to enjoy it.
Masturbation and self-exploration are very good things to experiment with when you're in that "curious" phase of being a pre-teen or teen. You can learn how your body works and reacts to certain touches etc. by masturbation. Also, it's good to learn what you enjoy, for future reference. Though it's often kept personal, the large majority of people do masturbate. It's nothing to be ashamed of. :-)
I hope that helps! Good luck, and be safe! :-)
Don't feel like you need to rush into things, or do anything sexual because you feel like it's what you're "supposed to" do. Wait until you're ready, and comfortable, because if you rush into it when you're not ready, you'll be very nervous and unable to enjoy it.
Masturbation and self-exploration are very good things to experiment with when you're in that "curious" phase of being a pre-teen or teen. You can learn how your body works and reacts to certain touches etc. by masturbation. Also, it's good to learn what you enjoy, for future reference. Though it's often kept personal, the large majority of people do masturbate. It's nothing to be ashamed of. :-)
I hope that helps! Good luck, and be safe! :-)
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