MY DOUBLE LAYER VIGINA

I came from an East African nation of Somalia where women is circumatize. However, I am getting married in three weeks and I asked my husband for permission for me to see a doctor to open my vigina since it will harder for him to go through and more painful for me also. He refused my request, and I guess he is more conservative and traditional man. The reality men in our society suffer for this process, but they chose the hardway. I don't want confront my man and I love him more than anything else in the entire world. I need some medication that at least helps the pain to go away and make it much soft and easy to break the barrier. I hope you understood my question. I know it is terrifying subject and hard to convince in our modern society.

Thanks and Please help.

Hodan,
Seattle, WA