DO not lift anything heavy or stain at all....make sure you are otherwise healthy ( i was anemic) --- have faith, and this will take time for it to fully heal and "adhere"...
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Hi! I had my first and only surgery in August or 2013. I still have a few problems and do have gas coming through but no poop. I will not have surgery again no matter what because it was too much pain. As far as I'm concerned im fixed because of no bowel movement coming through. I can tolerate the gas. Hope that helps.
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Can you please tell me the link for Facebook group? Just had my second failed attempt at repair.
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I too had a recto-vaginal fistula from 4th degree tears. (Dr. did not believe in episiotomy and I wasn't aware of that. After all of this occurred he had said, I knew that your perineum was small.) This made me very angry. No one had believed that I was going to the bathroom from the back to the front. Not even the Dr. who caused it by either not cutting me or sewing me up improperly. He suggested that I just needed to go to the bathroom and that I should give myself an enema. This landed me right in the emergency room. The medicine went right in and along with feces came right out of the surface of my vagina. After the hospital diagnosed me with what I had already figured out I had by reading up on it online, They fought with my Dr. over the phone who was convinced that this wasn't the case. HE WAS WRONG. He had missed it in his examination. How, you ask?? How did my dumb Dr. miss a surface fistula?? Your guess is as good as mine.
I had to wear adult diapers for 6 months until I was healed enough for repair surgery. (This was all in 2013) I had the number 3 Dr. in all of America do my surgery. He did an amazing job. The fistula has not come back, however, I have noticed that my bladder doesn't "Void" completely and I do have some new problems with burning, going to the bathroom. I have to see a GI and Urologist to check up on it. Chance it could be related to something else but no problems prior to this. My new gyno says that although most docs repair the outside (or the fistula) they don't examine afterward to see if they have affected anything else. So, get a great Dr. who is one of the best, if you can, to do your repair, then ask him afterward if he can do some advanced screening to make sure that everything else repaired properly.
I remember feeling dirty (although I never, believe it or not, got an infection from this. I can remember thinking, I'm sure to get one, we are supposed to wipe from front to back and now my back is going into my front?!! I was afraid I would surely go septic and just die.) But, I also remember, loving my son so much that whilst wearing those diapers I thought, if I really have to be broken forever at least I have him.
I hope that everyone here finds an answer!! I was just hoping to provide a little hope as it is totally possible (even with the poor statistics for repair and recurrence )
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