so I'm 13 and kinda confused ... I'm still a virgin but I have given oral sex plenty of times. I have recently been getting really close like boyfriend and girlfriend to my close friends brother who will be 18 soon. we have been sexting a lot and I truly love him and I'm pretty sure he feels the same way back. we are talking about having sex sometime soon (he isn't a virgin) and I'm really keen to do it but at the same time I'm also very scared and I feel like it is kind of wrong.. we haven't done anything yet just a hookup.
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Hi there! As a female who is about to turn 18 soon, I would like to tell you that your close friend's brother is taking advantage of you. He might make you feel as if you are mature for your age, and perhaps that makes you feel special, but this is all manipulation. Perhaps five years isn't that much in your twenties, but during your teenage years, your mind changes and accelerates at an alarming rate, and even a mere few months can deeply change who you are. I guess the best way to look at it is as if you are two people, one having five more years of life expereince interacting on the same physical plane. I think back on how mature I thought I was at that age(even though I wasn't), and am fortunate that no one took advantage of me like that. I beg of you to think this the whole way through, and think of the long term psychological affects of having sex with someone that much older than you at that age(nothing is wrong with sex, as long as you are completely comfortable and mature enough, and due to you making this status, I don't think you are). Also when he turns 18, it will be considered staturory rape. If you do intend to go through with this however, I would make sure you have access to proper contraception and don't listen to any of his "withdrawl method" BS. Don't ruin your life because of a turned on, stupid older boy who preys on 12 and 13 year olds(has he made sexual advances towards other girls your age?).
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