Should I lose my virginity?

its so funny how girls of nowadays reason,to me i take my virginity as my everthin,dats my pride,my innocent and wat money can neva buy,so if im gonna give dat sh*t 2 a guy,it must be someone i can give my life to,and i will neva regret eva givin it to him,come 2 think of it u met dat dude 3weeks ago & u guys are thinkin about sex,im pretty sure dat dude just wanna f**k u & kick ur ass,u dont even kno all about him yet,DO U NEED A GUY JUST 2 AV SEX WITH OR 2 HAVE A FUTURE WITH?i ve bin with my man for almost 3yrs,he is my everythin,as in i love him so dearly & still im scared 2 give him my virginity.im 20 yrs will turn 21 very soon & i still take dat sh*t so special 2 me.so u still very young & u are not ready 2 av sex yet coz if u are u wont ask da forum if u should av sex or not.SO U AINT READY 4 DAT sh*t.just make da right decision coz its ur life.

Your hymen might already be completely broken, so pain may not be that big of an issue. However, having sex is an important decision. Especially your first time. And in my opinion, if you have to ask strangers on the internet what they think... you probably aren't ready quite yet. It's got to feel right.

But I am 14 and my bf is 14, we have only been together for about 2 months, 3 weeks and he treats me like an angel so i know he's not just with me to try and get sex from me. We are both virgins and i trust him with all my heart. We have been experimenting for the past month and we are both pretty sure we are ready to take it further, we have protection and everything but it's just that feeling of something going wrong. I need to know how I can know that I'm truly ready for it, as i only feel ready when I am turned on because when i am turned on I don't worry about the consequenses, but I think i'm sure I am ready when I am not turned on because i really love him and he really loves me. Please answer as i am a little confused and we are both underage...x

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