Sorry for my bad English. I fingered my girlfriend... My finger got all inside. She lost quite some blood and felt some pain. I now presume her hymen is broken. But I feel her vagina very tight around my finger. If i will try to get my penis inside it proably will not get in, or will hurt her very bad. Tell me, what's with the tightness? is it caused by her hymen? I have no experience with a virgin girl. What is to be done?
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Claudius wrote:
it could be damaged, but still there which would explain the bleeding and the tightness
I now presume her hymen is broken.?
it could be damaged, but still there which would explain the bleeding and the tightness
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All you have to do is reduce the tightness. You can do this by fingering her more, but gently. If you are going to have sex, make sure she is VERY lubricated, this will cause her to stretch more. Just take it easy and gently.
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my fingers seem to stop into something at exactly their lenght, into the vagina. What is this? Hymen? I have some doubt
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She doesn't sound very relaxed. If she is relaxed and turned on the vagina will become much looser.
Take your time and you should get there, talk to her and see what she wants you to do too.
Take your time and you should get there, talk to her and see what she wants you to do too.
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What you stop into is her cervix...its normal. Can be painful for the girl though...so don't ram into it or anything...be GENTLE!!!
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Hi. I would have to agree that the pain could be from lack of lubrication as well as it being her first time. Chances are that she is not 100% sure what is about to happen and will be alittle tense because of this. Reassure her that you would never do anything to hurt her and that you will take it slow the first time and stop if it get's too painful. It may not be your first time, but it is her's and from a girls perspective on that, you need to take it slow! Good luck...and get some KY for lube, it's great!
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When I had sex with my girl for her first time we just 4played some. Not planing on haveing sex. And she said she wanted to. So I laied her down and slowly stroked her untill she was ready. And when I went in it was tight. As it should be. And of course your Gona hert her... It's her first time. If you go lslow and gental a lil further every second or so it won't hert her as much. And where your fingers stop....well it's not you fingers that's Saposed to go it there. Lol don't force it. If she's relaxed you can but. Use what your Saposed to use. Be gental wit her....she may bleed during it or afterwards. Just be aware it's nothing to worry about oh and USE PROTECTION you don't want a mini you so.
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