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Hello. I'm 24 year old male and I'm seriously worried about my sexual health. You see, I'm sexually active more then seven years now and I have never had problems with my erection.
But, I wish I could say this now. I'm almost sure I have developed some kind of penile disorder because I'm having big problems with maintaining my erection. It seems that I can't maintain an erection for more than a couple of minutes during intercourse.
Like I said-it has never happened to me before and it is rather embarrassing. My girlfriend started thinking she isn’t hot enough for me and she’s convinced that she is the reason. But, this just isn’t true.
Please tell what could be the cause of my “disorder”?

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Hello. I have read your post and did a small research on my own about this subject. You see, there are several reasons that can cause great impact on male potency. The bottom line is that erection problems can be mainly physical, mainly psychological or mixture of both. I really doubt that your problem could be some physical because you said that you have slept with other women earlier.
You didn’t mention how long you are two together. And this information could be crucial because some men have problems keeping erections at the beginning of a relationship. If this is the cause then it will resolve by it self in a few weeks. Of course, conditions such as stress, anxiety and fear could also contribute to your problem. Wait for some time and if thing don’t improve- pay a visit to your GP!
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I have this serious issue. I just got married 3 weeks ago and had not had sex for over 3 years before then. My honey moon was super and wonderful. I had sex with my wife 6 to 8 times daily and we both enjoyed every bit of it. We returned from honey moon and things changed. I cannot make love to my wife more than twice a day. Most times it takes about 1 hour to get erection which will not last to enable ejaculation. I masturbated regularly before i got married.

What can necessary be the problem. I ernestly need help now. We are both worrried about this issue.

Thanks
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Oh come on! You have sex twice a day and you complain? Nobody can keep up 6-8 times a day.. you need to get some rest once in a while.. have a few days off sex totally (no jacking off either), youll both get turned on and the sex will be better as well.
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Cialis (Tadalafil) is a medicine for the treatment of erectile dysfunction (ED). Cialis is used to increase the flow of blood to the penis during sexual activity. Cialis helps men to get and keep an erection for long time. Cialis tablets works for up to 36 hours. Cialis relaxes muscle and increases blood flow into the penis during sexual activity.
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I agree with an earlier poster who laughed when considering making love twice a day. Certainly, when we are first married, or first become sexually active with someone we find attractive, the frequency is higher than when we settle into a routine.



The fact that you can perform twice a day at all will be remarkable to the majority of the male population.

But we are all different. You don't state your age, or years of experience.

However, it would seem that when we are young and fit, sex occurs much more frequently. As we age, we tend to slow, and arousal takes longer, and the number of completions drops.



There is no such thing as "normal" in the range of human behavior... but most people settle into a pattern of having sex once a week with their spouce...typically on a weekend. But there are some individuals who settle into a daily pattern... or bi-weekly. Some are moved by religious ceremonies to have sex Wednesdays and Saturdays, before or after church services.



And still others only have sex as a reward, on an anniversary, birthday, promotion or raise.



I would not be concerned that you can't have sex more than once a day.

There is a physical limit to how frequenly the seminal vessels fill up, and a refractory period between erections. If it is taking an hour of stimulation to achieve an erection, or to reach a climax, perhaps you are trying too frequently.



Open communicaiton with your spouse can help lessen the pressure to perform. Other than straight intercourse, there are many other forms of affection and sexual expression that could be just as satisfying to one or the other of you. You might try picking up the book "The Guide to Getting it On" by Paul Joanides (Goofy Foot Press) for a light hearted look at the broad range of sexual expression and response.



Good luck. 8)
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I am 21 years old. Last night I was with my friends and there were some girls with us. I slept with one but, I couldnt maintain erection, after apprx 20 minute i could maintain only a semi erection and i tried to get to her vagina, I ejaculated in the semi erect status before I could insert into her vagina.

I am really really worried, I think it could be cause of anxiety or fear, I t was my second time having sex, the first time was also somewhat like this that I couldnt maintain an erection properly. CAN SOMEONE TELL ME WHY IS IT??? IS IT SOEMTHING TO WORRY ABOUT???

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It is anxiety, you don't have to worry much about it.  You say it's the second time you have sex, and usually at the start you need to get comfortable with your partner.  From the story, there were "some girls" so it's someone you don't know and you just got stressed to impress. 

Find yourself a girlfriend, it's usually a lot better when you start practicing with a partner you have some feelings for.  Then, sex with strangers will just be a ride to satisfy your desires.  

I'm saying this assuming you don't experience from previous erectile dysfunction.  You were probably stressed just to get it over with.

Best of luck,
T.
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