Hey I'm 18 years of age, I been having problems holding a erection during sex with my partner, I can hold one during foreplay but it's when we come to putting the condom on I lose it. Now I know there isn't any phyical problem cause I can wank just fine but I also know it can be a mental problem and people say I just put to much thought into it maybe thats true but I can't seem to break that mental thought but I want to know if suffing from depression can have anything to do with it or if I should use Viagra?
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You're 18, so barring any medical problem, you definitely don't need viagra. Depression could be a factor, but how long is it taking you to put on a condom? This should be a 5-10 second operation, tops. If you're stopping to open the wrapper and all, then you need to have it laying out ready to go on. If you lose part of your erection during this time, put it on and use manual stimulation to get your erection back, check your condom for fitment, and you're ready to go.
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I have this problem to. When i use a condom i can't feel any sensation, i have tried using various condoms but every time i loose my erection. I am fine when i take the condom off.
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You're very far from alone in having this problem with condoms.
Difficulty in keeping an erection when using a condom is so common that family planning clinic doctors encounter men with this problem several times a week.
It is actually due to anxiety.
At the very moment the man starts to roll the condom onto his penis, his brain starts to worry about whether he'll be stiff enough to 'fill' the condom. The body instantly starts producing anxiety chemicals and these stop the erection.
The solution favoured by family planning doctors is to get your partner to put the condom on you, stimulating you by hand as she does. She should also stimulate you if you lose the erection.
If you think about it, your problems in achieving an erection with new partners must also be due to anxiety. After all, what difference is there between them and your regular partner - except that they are new?
My advice to you is to seek counselling to try to diminish your anxiety in sexual situations.
Difficulty in keeping an erection when using a condom is so common that family planning clinic doctors encounter men with this problem several times a week.
It is actually due to anxiety.
At the very moment the man starts to roll the condom onto his penis, his brain starts to worry about whether he'll be stiff enough to 'fill' the condom. The body instantly starts producing anxiety chemicals and these stop the erection.
The solution favoured by family planning doctors is to get your partner to put the condom on you, stimulating you by hand as she does. She should also stimulate you if you lose the erection.
If you think about it, your problems in achieving an erection with new partners must also be due to anxiety. After all, what difference is there between them and your regular partner - except that they are new?
My advice to you is to seek counselling to try to diminish your anxiety in sexual situations.
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you can take cialis . Cialis tablets works for up to 36 hours. Cialis relaxes muscle and increases blood flow into the penis during sexual activity.
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My boyfriend and i have come to a sexual problem.I dont know why this happened because everything was fine before.We are togheter for 4 months and we are living togheter .
He has erectional problems with or without a condom.he is only 21 old .And latley he finds excuses for not having sex .I dont know what to do or what the problem might be.
pleas help me
He has erectional problems with or without a condom.he is only 21 old .And latley he finds excuses for not having sex .I dont know what to do or what the problem might be.
pleas help me
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There is a solution to your erectile dysfunction. If you want to overcome your difficulties in getting and keeping a hard erection when you make love;
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I am able to sustain an erection but when I'm putting on a condom I lose an erection. What can be my problem?
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Hi, I'm 36. During sex, my body heat tends to rise a lot, which can make me lose erection. What can I do about it? Thanks.
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