I started masterbating about a year ago. At first i would do it like once a month but latly I do it 2 or 3 times a day. I find that when ever i lie down my hands always end up down around there and than I start thinking about sexual things. That makes it a whold lot better. But I also am a commited christion. I feel extremly guilty after I masterbate but I just can't stop. The longest i've ever gone without masterbating is one weekend. That's a problem. Some nights after I masterbate I start to cry because I get so frustrated with myself. To quite masterbating is one thing I really want to do... soon. I like how it feels but I don't like what I have to do to get this feeling. :-(
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John Paul II has some very good advise on this topic. Read The Theology of the Body. Father Brian Mullady is another one, he has a four part DVD series called Healing of the Spirit.
Our "fallen" nature makes it very difficult to overcome this habit but we can and should win this battle. I do know this, it takes a LOT of sincere prayer. Use your free time when you are bored to pray instead of allowing your mind to wander and master your passions so you can follow our Master, Jesus Christ. Thank you!
Our "fallen" nature makes it very difficult to overcome this habit but we can and should win this battle. I do know this, it takes a LOT of sincere prayer. Use your free time when you are bored to pray instead of allowing your mind to wander and master your passions so you can follow our Master, Jesus Christ. Thank you!
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well, i just read ur answers 2oday and i was doing it since i was 9 now i am 1? and i am body building like i have 6 backs arm musecls and etc... i thought that masterbating will efect me but i am now in americanfoot ball team that means it dont have any phycical prop.
and i try to stop but i found out that i couldnt cuz i am somehow was going to f**k my girl friend without condom and that will bring me a big prop. to me and to her that happen when i stopped masterbating for 1.5 week so masterbating dont efect any of ur body now i am doing it every day cuz i have to or i will do it with a girli did it 1 time but ..... :$ ok thx for ur answers
and i try to stop but i found out that i couldnt cuz i am somehow was going to f**k my girl friend without condom and that will bring me a big prop. to me and to her that happen when i stopped masterbating for 1.5 week so masterbating dont efect any of ur body now i am doing it every day cuz i have to or i will do it with a girli did it 1 time but ..... :$ ok thx for ur answers
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Hi everybody!
I'm 38 and married! I start masturbating when I was 14! Whenever I was not in a realationship I used to masturbate even twice a day!
Even now I'm married, sometimes have fun on my own
I'm 38 and married! I start masturbating when I was 14! Whenever I was not in a realationship I used to masturbate even twice a day!
Even now I'm married, sometimes have fun on my own
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Its fine to masterbate its prefectly normal. Try it while dressed in womens lingerie! talk about fun!
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i under stand what you feel, im 13 and i started when i was 12, i hate doing it but i cant stop its so hard. i feel so guilty every time i do it, i cant quit the longest ive gone is a week.
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I am 14 and I was masterbating. I don't masterbate often for referance. I was finishing up and I had one squirt of seman and the rest was all blood. What happened?
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it is so true that it is an addiction, i started when i was 13 and have been doing it for 7 years, not everyday, just when ever i felt like it, there were times when i tried to stop but i just couldnt the need and lust was to much so i just decided to stop fighting it and just do it, but now i am starting to get nervous, after looking at other sites about health problems related to masterbating, a few caught my eye such as going deaf or blind and even having a heart attack as well as hearing that doing masterbation can cause a shrinkage of the body and body parts, those are things i know i do not ever want to have,though recently i have been feeling some side affects, possibly the skrinking, i get the pains in my heart, as of recently i have been trying to cut back on doing it, though it doesnt go to well with progress, as of right now i am currently suffering from some unknown pain that is located on my lower left side and it streches to my back leftside i guess to the kidney area, basically i just have this really annoying cramping pain in my intestinal region, it comes and goes mostly its been on my left side but occasionally it goes to the right or center, it sucks cause i cant really sleep ever because of it, i try to sleep but the pain keeps me awake and i even feel awake like i dont want to sleep, which shouldnt be happening on account of the fact that i dont get much sleep, so i dont see how i could have the energy to stay awake, also no matter what i eat, the pain also happens, some times a little while after a meal other times it may be a few hours, and i recenlty noticed a slight yet small bulge on my lower left side right around the area where its been bothering me, i dunno what the problem is but this pain has been with me for the better part of almost 2 weeks or so, bad thing for me is that i have no heatlh insurance so i cant go see a doctor, so im pretty much screwed
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Guys look not to freak any body out masterbating can cause prostate cancer your sprem will run out and your muscles will grow weak as so will your vision. I used to do it like twice a day now i have stopped because i heard all this so just try go out get a girlfriend play sports, activites study but dont have enough free time to masterbate
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well i started when i was 14 it is hard to stop but i have and i dont do it no more when ever i get a hard on i f**k my girl freind and thats how i stop if you have a girl friend go ask her do she wont to f**k f**k her
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Well i cant say because i started when i accedently found a porn site many years ago but if you stop for a while you will have wet dreams and then after a month or so you mabey will forget about it so just stop and the earges will go away
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Honestly, I don't understand why people believe it is a sin to play with yourself, or whatever it is you want to call it; or even to have sex or sexual actions with another person for that matter. As other people have pointed out, it is natural. I've been 'playing with myself' since I was 12. Why? Because it feels good. I don't know, personally (now, I'm not really much of a 'God' or 'Jesus' believer) I believe that if there is a God, etc, that humans aren't creations of God at all, but of Satan. Maybe because of how we're f*****g over the planet? All I know is that humans aren't perfect. If you believe it is a sin to play with yourself, and yet you do, maybe you need that bit of sin? Not saying I know EVERYTHING about this religion, but it is my knowledge that the 'Devil' rebelled against God (Lucifer HAD been an Archangel, may I remind you) FOR humanity. That 'God' didn't want humanity to do certain things which are parts of our personality. To be lazy, or maybe a bit rude, lustful. In my eyes, the Bible is alienating these natural feelings and emotions. And if we are going to be discussing religions, may I remind everyone that there were multiple religions before Christianity and Catholicism where these actions were considered to be sacred? For example, Wicca (which is NOT Satanism, for all of you ignorant people out there); it is even discussed in The DaVinci Code.
I'm not saying that you shouldn't not stop.... if you want to, all the power to you. It's just my personal opinion that sometimes the Bible is just f******g us over.
Now, if you'll excuse me... I'm off to pleasure myself
I'm not saying that you shouldn't not stop.... if you want to, all the power to you. It's just my personal opinion that sometimes the Bible is just f******g us over.
Now, if you'll excuse me... I'm off to pleasure myself
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religion: the bible says nothing about m@sterbation... not a single word. If it really bothered your god, he would have said at least one thing, no?
stopping: like any addiction, it can be broken if you really want to stop.
techniques to stop: like most addictions if you mentally travel too close to the edge you fall in and cannot stop, but like most addictions there is an initial time where changes can be made if made fast enough... it is at this crucial time that must have other things to think and do already planned out... and then do them. One idea that helps is to just imagine peeing. you cannot have sex and pee at the same time... other than your freaks with your golden shower stuff, but thats not the same thing (^_^). but by thinking of peeing... the body changes chemistry, changes internal programs.. that gives you more crucial time to change thoughts and change actions... again, you have to set down a list of things ahead of time to change to... to prepare yourself.
so there you have it. there is nothing biblically wrong with m@sterbation and there is a way to stop. the choice is now in your hands (pun intended).
stopping: like any addiction, it can be broken if you really want to stop.
techniques to stop: like most addictions if you mentally travel too close to the edge you fall in and cannot stop, but like most addictions there is an initial time where changes can be made if made fast enough... it is at this crucial time that must have other things to think and do already planned out... and then do them. One idea that helps is to just imagine peeing. you cannot have sex and pee at the same time... other than your freaks with your golden shower stuff, but thats not the same thing (^_^). but by thinking of peeing... the body changes chemistry, changes internal programs.. that gives you more crucial time to change thoughts and change actions... again, you have to set down a list of things ahead of time to change to... to prepare yourself.
so there you have it. there is nothing biblically wrong with m@sterbation and there is a way to stop. the choice is now in your hands (pun intended).
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