I'm am 17 and I was masterbating in my bed when my stepfather walked in and saw me fingering myself. He didnt say anything to me at the time. A few days later he wlked in when I was doing it again and stared at me when i coverd up he told me it was ok to masterbate and i should not be ashamed. lately he has been just walking in my room and in the bathroom while i'm in there. Sometimes he tells me to finish masterbating while he in there. Is it normal for a parent to watch or give advise on how to mastebate so it feels better. Lately when i masterbate i think about him touching me- he has never touch me.
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Well, it is normal for parents to talk to their children about sexuality and masturbation but dropping in like that more and more is not really good.
You shouldn't be thinking about you and your stepfather...it sounds so unhealthy.
I would ask him not to drop in like that and make sure you are home alone when masturbating or at least look your door.
You shouldn't be thinking about you and your stepfather...it sounds so unhealthy.
I would ask him not to drop in like that and make sure you are home alone when masturbating or at least look your door.
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HE SHOULD NOT BE WATCHING YOU
IF HE DOES TRY TO TOUCH YOU OR KEEPS WALKING IN ON YOU TELL YOUR MOM OR A TRUSTED FAMILY MEMBER.
IF HE DOES TRY TO TOUCH YOU OR KEEPS WALKING IN ON YOU TELL YOUR MOM OR A TRUSTED FAMILY MEMBER.
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this is not normal....if he talked to you about it its fine but he should not watch
considering he is your stepfather and not your real father he is more apt to be sexually attracted to you and enjoys watching you and may touch you one day
dont let him see anymore.....if he does it again tell your mother
considering he is your stepfather and not your real father he is more apt to be sexually attracted to you and enjoys watching you and may touch you one day
dont let him see anymore.....if he does it again tell your mother
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He should not be watching you. He could talk to you about it and all, like techniques n stuff if he was cool. But that just makes me think that he just wants you or wants to touch you if he keeps dropping in like that. take all the above advice.
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well masterbating is normal but the stepdaddy thing is pretty nasty you should know that its not right for him to look at you in that manner unless u like it yourself o.O you know the thing on the door thats called a lock? maybe you should try it sometimes ! well good luck rember ALWAYS LOCK YOUR DOORS!
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I agree with most of them it's ok he talked with you about it but don't let him watch like ever thats just weird.
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he should not want you to masterbate in front of him its wrong its creepy he should talk to you about it but masterbating should be done in private and he should not want to see his step kid masterbating for him you should tell your mom if he keeps walking in on you when you are in your bedroom or in the bathroom masterbating this sounds dangerous like he might try to harm you emotionally or phsicaly you should really tell about this
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wait, if you are a girl then that is totally wrong, it is more okay though if you are a guy. don't let him touch you. ever.
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It is fine to finger yourself. But for your father to walk in and watch, thats not right. It might be that some day he is going to watch you from start to finish. It might be that he will touch you and that is just stupid on his part and wrong. If he does, you should tell you mom. Hell you should tell your mom that he watches you now. Its just sick in the head.
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Dear Kelly,
First off tell him to stop even if your fantasies don't stop. If he does not stop,
get your mother involved. He should not be doing this and I think you might want to look into fantasies about other people.
I was hurt sexually as a young girl and don't want you at 17 to be hurt. It totally ruins your life take it from someone who knows. I was abused by not 1 not 2 but 3 guys and my own SISTER. It is so horrible. Please ask your mom to make him stop.
He sound's a bit to me like a pedefile and he needs to stop. I agree that you should lock the doors from now on but I think you'd agree that you should not have to. I mean come on its your room and your in the bathroom.
I hope you can understand what I am trying to say.
Best of luck,
Amber
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First off tell him to stop even if your fantasies don't stop. If he does not stop,
get your mother involved. He should not be doing this and I think you might want to look into fantasies about other people.
I was hurt sexually as a young girl and don't want you at 17 to be hurt. It totally ruins your life take it from someone who knows. I was abused by not 1 not 2 but 3 guys and my own SISTER. It is so horrible. Please ask your mom to make him stop.
He sound's a bit to me like a pedefile and he needs to stop. I agree that you should lock the doors from now on but I think you'd agree that you should not have to. I mean come on its your room and your in the bathroom.
I hope you can understand what I am trying to say.
Best of luck,
Amber
**edited by moderator**
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if he does that and he touches you call the cops. because that is sexuall harassment but tell your mother first.
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Ding!
Wow that is wrong on so many levels. No its not normal ... he should not want to see that.
A father or mother should talk to you about sex, but in your case i would say mother.
Your father is a pervert ... and if you dont tell your mother, he will molest you one day. Watching is good enough for him now, but that will change.
You should not be having feeling like that. I am sure its just the attention that you like, either way you need to work on that.
Wow that is wrong on so many levels. No its not normal ... he should not want to see that.
A father or mother should talk to you about sex, but in your case i would say mother.
Your father is a pervert ... and if you dont tell your mother, he will molest you one day. Watching is good enough for him now, but that will change.
You should not be having feeling like that. I am sure its just the attention that you like, either way you need to work on that.
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