ok im a guy (17) ive had sex multiple times but when im in school ive gotten to the point to were i cant wear gym shorts (by the way public school) when im in gym class if a girl does a split my imagination runs absolutly wild! and instintly get turned on and i tell my friend to do physical to me for me to get unhorny and not have VERY embarrasing moment and i think i watch porn way to much but anyways is this normal? i understand getting turned on but it happens way to much
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lol. Well, you are still a teenager/growing young man, and if a girl turns you on, it turns you on... That is normal. I can see how distressing it could be that it seems you don't have much control over it. It is possible that cutting back on the porn & maybe actually releasing some of that pressure more often could help. You could basically try meditation... in a way... at home, when you are alone & watching an adult film or such, practice focusing on your breathing (like meditating but without crossing your legs & saying "ohm") and just trying to use the power of your mind, calming yourself, to see if you can control how quickly you become aroused, or if you can shut the show off & get it down without having to climax... If it becomes too much of an issue & you still can't control it, you could always try to "tape it down" so that if you get hard during class, it won't be so obvious. ;-) good luck!
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Just think of instant turnoffs; Ugliest girl in school naked with pimples everywhere or something. Or worse; saggy old grandmas doing it.
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