i m 23 years old guy married and i m now totally depressed of how m going to handle this critical situation. it happened to when i was just 9 years old. i was just folding in the ground to and fro where suddenly i experience a burning sensation from beneath but i turned deaf ear to it and then from that moment for about three days i continuously had a burning sensation around my penis. after about three days i noticed that when i passed urine, the tip of my penis was swelled and less amount of urine out flow due to the a very small hole being created by toned foreskin when healed back.
still to this day, nobody knows about that one, and even my wife too. And also i feel safe since i could maintain secret of my personal but on the other side of this i m afraid that i will not have kid becouse now i even encountered a problem in flowing out the my semen because semen being just a fluid and on top of that the foreskin hole became small after it is being torn and healed back.
You can't gently stretch the foreskin opening (preputial sphincter). A doctor will prescribe Betamethasone ointment and teach you stretching exercises you can do with your fingers for say 10 minutes morning, noon, and night for a few months. If you can't or won't stretch and want a quick surgical fix, that would be a non-amputating preputialplasty called "bi-lateral dorsal slit with transverse closure" which loosens the opening while amputating none of the exquisitely pleasure-receptive foreskin.
You are blessed with an erogenous, highly-innervated foreskin. Many guys would envy your foreskin even though it does not retract. You display great wisdom in wanting to avoid circumcision. Do not be worried. You are normal for your age.
To retract the foreskin, one must grab the foreskin on the shaft and pull it rearward, but do not force it. If the foreskin will not retract then you must consider leaving it as it is or doing stretching exercises to make it retractable. You are fortunate to have a choice.
Having sex with a non-retractile foreskin depends on just how tight your foreskin is. If it is really narrow and absolutely won't retract, then you can have penetrative sex without pain. On the other hand, if it just a little bit tight, then it is likely to be forced back during sex and that will hurt because it is tight. In that case, it probably would be better to stretch your foreskin until it glides easily back and forth
It is not necessary to have a foreskin that will retract. Some men live their entire lives with a non-retractable foreskin. They can masturbate, have penetrative sex, get married, and father children with a foreskin that does not retract. Some
believe that a penis with a non-retractile foreskin has more sensation and that sex is better. One just needs to see that your partner is well lubricated before you attempt penetration. One may need to add some personal lubricant if she does not lubricate.
Almost all boys are born with a foreskin that does not retract. This is normal. It takes years for the ability to retract to develop. About ½ of boys have a retractable foreskin by 10.4 years of age. Many adolescents still have foreskins that have tips that are too narrow to pass back over the penis head. These foreskins may be gently stretched over a period of time to cause them to widen.
It is normal for teens to have a foreskin that does not retract. One’s foreskin is still developing. If you want your foreskin to retract (not everyone wants a retractable foreskin), then you can help it develop ability to retract by stretching it.
If you choose to stretch your foreskin, then the goal is to have a foreskin that glides smoothly back and forth so as to provide maximum pleasure.
When your penis is erect, gently pull your foreskin back against the head of the penis. As the head attempts to pass through the foreskin it will stretch the skin a little. Do this several times a day and in a few weeks or months your foreskin will widen and you will be able to retract your foreskin. Do NOT force retraction. Do NOT cause yourself pain.
It works by tissue expansion. Stretching skin induces “mitosis” which is a word that means “division of cells”. New skin cells are formed and the skin expands but it takes some time. The increase in size is permanent. Be patient and give mitosis time to work.
The important thing is to put the skin under tension every day so that it will grow wider.
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