I'm new here, going to try and explain this as good and clear as I can! Im 25 and healthy. Firstly, I miscarried this past july. We didnt know i was pregnant being that i had my period. Now that i think about it, though, it was lighter than usual. Expected or not, we werent trying, I still took it pretty hard. Guess I didn't realize how ready I was. Anyway, period returned following month. Then, starting 8/28, I bled for 3 days, light..usually i have to wear super plus..I caved and tested Friday 8/31...it was positive. I was too scared to believe it or test again, so like an id**t I decided to not think about it. I decided to wait until September and see if I got my period. Mind you, I started taking extra good care of myself. 9/24 light pink bleeding..but it was such a small amount. I didn't have to wear a pad or anything. Lasted a few days. Ever since September ive had headaches that just don't go away, nausea that has gotten increasingly worse, I am so moody my poor boyfriend is a saint, my legs and ankles are sore, my lower back aches, weird, burning pulling sensation in hip area, weird feeling in my stomach like it itches inside (weird explanation I know), breasts have ached, today they feel huge and my underarms hurt, a lot of CM my undies feel wet. - TMI i know, im sorry! I know there 's more but ill stop rambling,! I guess I'm scared that its going to be a fluke or not work out. I was upset over the miscarriage and my boyfriend was very supportive and just amazing. I just think that this has showed him that he is ready to be a father (he is 11 yrs older than me-never married, no kids) and I don't want to "let him down" again. I don't have my Mom, so I guess I just need some womanly advice. Should I test now or wait until the 22nd when my period should come? I just need help!