Wet dreamz - Scary

hey there, how old are you? everything is normal. unfortunatly everything that is happening is involuntary. once you are sleeping you have no control over what your body does.  nightly erections are normal and you should get them.  the good news is the farther along through puberty you go, the older you get the wet dreams usually decrease.  so you just have to deal with them for now and things will improve as you get older.

i hope this help if you have any other questions just ask.

It can be pretty startling to wake to find that your penis and prostate have a mind of their own.

I recall the feelings of shock and surprise when my wet dreams began.

But eventually, it became clear that there was a link between the lack of masturbation and the wet dreams... that is, if I didn't come for say, two weeks, that I was almost certain to have a wet dream on the next night that I had a real restful sleep.   I also found it almost always would happen in the early morning hours, just a bit before waking... (in fact, it would happen AS I was waking from REM sleep).

I also found that my dreams would turn sexual as I began to be aroused, or that as my dream would reach an involuntary climax, so would my prostate.

There was no stopping it..I'd just wake up gripping my penis, trying to keep from peeing or soaking the sheets and my underwear with pre-cum and semen.

The best thing you can do is remember to get up, wash up, rinse out those undershorts, and hang them out to dry someplace where they will dry, but won't be noticed... like over the edge of your laundry hamper.  Also, it wouldn't be a bad thing to be taught how to do your own laundry, so that you can take care of your own soiled night clothes and bedding yourself.  Your mom would probably really appreciate the help, is you handlled it right and didn't waste soap or water or laundry products on too small, too frequent a load.

Good luck.

hey guest,

there is nothing wrong with your glands and actually frequent ejaculation is thaught by some medical professionals to help prevent prostate cancer and prostatitis.

you mentioned you are 20. did you start puberty late? where at in puberty do you think you are. (like what charactoristics do you have) also have you ever had sex or do you masturbate at all? like kevin said wet dreams start intensifying the more you do not ejaculate.

Hi Guest:

Wet dreams are normal if you do not masturbate. If you don't want to have wet dreams, then try masturbating to orgasm and ejaculation before going to bed.

Masturbation is beneficial because it provides for the need to ejaculate semen, is fun, pleasant, enjoyable, safe, healthy, normal, harmless, contributes to prostate health, relieves sexual tension, and pain from overfilled seminal vesicles. Masturbation aids sleep when done before bedtime. Frequent masturbation prevents wet dreams. Masturbation leaves one with a feeling of relaxation, contentment, and well-being. One cannot get an STD from masturbation.

There are no bad side effects to masturbation.

Masturbation should be done in a place where one has privacy. Favorite places are in the shower or in bed at night.

There is no lower or upper age limit for masturbation. Some pre-school boys masturbate and some elderly people masturbate at least into their late seventies.

One may masturbate as much or as little as one wishes, however one may experience temporary sexual exhaustion due to very frequent masturbation.

Three times a day works well for many teens.

1. Do it before school in the morning. This helps you get through the school day without being excessively h*rny.
2. Do it after school because you have gone a whole day without masturbating.
3. Do it before going to sleep. This helps with restful, sound sleep.

The movable, internally-lubricated, nerve-laden erogenous foreskin, with its gliding action, is an important aid to masturbation.

Circumcision was introduced to unforeskin the penis and make it impossible to masturbate. It failed to stop masturbation but it made it harder to do and perhaps less enjoyable.

How one does it depends on whether one has an internally lubricated movable foreskin that glides up and down the shaft or whether you have been unforeskinned.

If you are foreskinned, then all you need to do is glide your foreskin back and forth. It is not necessary to retract the foreskin. The outer foreskin glides over the inner foreskin. The foreskin is internally lubricated with lymphatic fluid and glides without friction. The numerous nerves inside the foreskin are stimulated by the motion and generate pleasurable sensations. Foreskinned males must be careful not to tear the frenulum.

Long and vigorous masturbation can cause the foreskin to become edematous and swollen, which is painless and not a cause for alarm. The edema usually goes down within about 24 hours. Pulling back too hard is apt to stretch the frenulum and may tear it.

If you are unforeskinned and the skin is taut and immovable, then you will need some lubrication and you need to slide your hand up and down the shaft. You will likely injure yourself without lubricant. Friction irritation is common when a male without foreskin masturbates without lubricant. Some lubricants are baby oil, vegetable oil, personal lubricant, soapy water, and saliva.

It is common for an unforeskinned male, who has been deprived of his internally lubricated foreskin, to have irritation if he does not apply external lubricant.

After a male ejaculates, there is normally a “refractory period” before he can have sex again.

There are many myths about masturbation, which simply are not true.

Masturbation does NOT shorten your life.

Masturbation does NOT cause heart attacks.

Masturbation does NOT cause insanity.

Masturbation does NOT affect your brain cells.

Masturbation does NOT cause memory loss.

Masturbation does NOT cause you to go blind.

Masturbation does NOT cause eye problems.

Masturbation does NOT cause eye blink.

Masturbation does NOT cause blurred vision.

Masturbation does NOT cause eye floaters.

Masturbation does NOT cause sleeplessness.

Masturbation does NOT cause shaky hands.

Masturbation does NOT cause hair to grow in your palms.

Masturbation does NOT cause hair loss.

Masturbation does NOT cause thin hair.

Masturbation does NOT cause hair fall.

Masturbation does NOT change hair color.

Masturbation does NOT cause graying of the hair.

Masturbation does NOT change skin color.

Masturbation does NOT cause baldness.

Masturbation does NOT cause old look.

Masturbation does NOT cause erectile dysfunction (ED).

Masturbation does NOT cause impotence.

Masturbation does NOT make your sperm run out.

Masturbation does NOT prevent fathering children.

Masturbation does NOT slow down puberty.

Masturbation does NOT affect completing puberty.

Masturbation does NOT stunt your growth.

Masturbation does NOT make you skinny.

Masturbation does NOT suck out the nutrients.

Masturbation does NOT cause loss of vitamins.

Masturbation does NOT lower your testosterone.

Masturbation does NOT raise your testosterone.

Masturbation does NOT cause gynecomastia.

Masturbation does NOT cause pain in the testes.

Masturbation does NOT cause premature ejaculation.

Masturbation does NOT affect height.

Masturbation does NOT cause penile curvature.

Masturbation does NOT affect penis size.

Masturbation does NOT decrease stamina.

Masturbation does NOT cause knee pains.

Masturbation does NOT cause knee problems.

Masturbation does NOT stop growth spurts.

Masturbation does NOT cause muscle weakness.

Masturbation does NOT reduce muscle mass.

Masturbation does NOT cause hernia.

Masturbation does NOT affect the physical appearance.

Masturbation does NOT cause penis bumps.

Masturbation does NOT cause warts.

Masturbation does NOT cause weight gain.

Masturbation does NOT cause weight loss.

Masturbation does NOT cause acne.

Masturbation does NOT cause wrinkles on your face.

Masturbation does NOT cause loss of blood.

Masturbation does NOT cause blood to flow from the urethra.

Masturbation does NOT cause your body to smell like a fish.

Masturbation does NOT make your bones softer.

Masturbation does NOT slow the growth of your penis.

Masturbation does NOT make your penis weak.

 Masturbation does NOT make your penis larger.

Masturbation does NOT make your penis smaller.

Masturbation does NOT make your penis wrinkly.

Masturbation does NOT cause penile fracture.

Masturbation does NOT cause skin wrinkles.

Masturbation does NOT cause bent penis.

Masturbation does NOT cause your foreskin to grow.

Masturbation does NOT release hormones.

Masturbation does NOT cause premature ejaculation.

Masturbation does NOT make you sexually weak.

Masturbation does NOT cause infertility.

Masturbation does NOT make sex less enjoyable.

Masturbation does NOT cause nerve problems.

Masturbation does NOT cause memory problems.

Masturbation does NOT cause cancer.

Masturbation does NOT cause back pain.

Masturbation does NOT cause stomachache.

Masturbation does NOT cause body aches.

Masturbation does NOT cause headache.

Masturbation does NOT cause muscle loss.

Masturbation does NOT harm the pelvic floor muscles.

Masturbation does NOT make your body weak.

Masturbation does NOT affect stamina.

Masturbation does NOT make you thin and skinny.

Masturbation does NOT harm the kidneys.

Masturbation does NOT cause prostate cancer.

Masturbation does NOT cause psoriasis.

Masturbation does NOT cause cancer.

Masturbation does NOT cause infection.

Masturbation does NOT cause death.