i am 33 and he is 37. we jus got married 4 months before. whenever we start loving each other his penis is hard but during the foreplay only his penis goes soft before the insertion. it takes longer time to get erect again. i need to use my hand to make it erect mean while i loose my mood for the same. we do have sex but i feel still it is not completely erect. i am depressed now. don't know what to do. is there any solution? actually even i have a thyroid problem to conceive it was a problem but possible.  after noticing above things i am confused that can i conceive in such situation? please help with the solution