Ladies please, please....give me some feedback. I do not know what is going on with me, as it is too early for me to get an EPT. So, here is how my story goes, with accurate dates included:    I am 39 and already have 2 healthy kids. My OBGY prescribed the birth control pill, Junel - 20 mg, in order to reduce the length & severity of my periods. I began taking the pill on Nov 20th, 2011, but did not take it very religiously, as I'm not in the habit of taking a pill daily. However, the pill (I guess since I started it half way through the month or later?) did not prevent my period & like clock work (I'm always on time with my periods), my periods started on November 22. It was after the onset of this period, the first Sunday, November 27th, that I began taking the pill regularly. On the pill my period this time lasted only for 3 days....maybe spotting on the 4th day. After that it was all normal. However on January 1st, 2012, I had unprotected intercourse. That day I missed the pill. The next day the pill was taken very, very late. I, like clock work, was supposed to get my period no later than January 22-24, based on the previous month's date. I took the active pills & started on the sugar pills, which were actually supposed to bring my period the week of January 16th ---- according to the pill layout, not according to my body's previous cycle--- but this did NOT happen. So, basically I have totally missed my period for this month. To add to it, I am feeling gassy, bloated & my breasts feel a tad bigger. I'm feeling very emotional/irritable as well. No smell issues or nausea though...thank God!!! I hardly had those issues with my earlier pregnancy. So please tell me, if you can,  what is going on with me? When is a good time get an EPT? I would most greatly appreciate any bit of feedback or suggestion. Please guide me through this path....! Btw, one more thing...my sexual desires or feelings have NOT at all decreased at this time. I'm very sexually responsive & have all the same physical desires as before. Now, with my last 2 pregnancies, I was always in the mood & had no problem getting excited very early on. So please help me if you can.Thank you very much in advance.