all points of view wanted for mother of teen son with a severely bent penis

All welcome to share penis info, facts and opinion with me a concerned mother of teen boys. As a toddler my son had a pretty severe curve to his penis. His doc said it needed no procedure, not to worry it would work fine. That did not ease my worries which weren't about fertilizing eggs and bladder drainage functions but the freak out factor. I believed penises were all pretty much the same shape, different sizes but nearly all straight. A slight curve was rare. My boy had a defect and may never dare risk the shame and rejection getting naked for sex would present. The idea that some day he'd want hump things, probably girls meant his crazy looking boner might scare away the person he wants to be closest to.

Out of the blue at 8 yrs old he switched from a regular kid chillin' in the tub as others used toilet or sink or mirror no worries. Suddenly he flipped dart to hide or cover his boy parts as he angrily scolded me for barging in and hurried me away. It took a few of these fits before I realized it had nothing to do with mom seeing him or privacy. It was heart breaking as I realized he discovered his penis was odd. Without doubt he acted as I would have at his age with such a flaw, hide at all costs, a secrete to take to the grave. I was very familiar with the real dangers of body dysmorphia, self hate and somehow constant focus on a tiny imperfection blinds the mind's eye. 100 great things on the same face can not be seen through hateful eyes. My lack of self worth and focus on flaws was terribly off, dangerous and unchecked until a few yrs ago.

No matter my own struggles a as a pre teen with big problems.l I'd probably agree the number 1 worst thing ever had to be a poor guy with a deformed penis, a freak with no chance, sad and terrifying to imagine! (extreme thinking, I know) The doc said nothing could fix or straighten a bent penis even a little one just getting started. He had a deformity that was worse than any disability (in my world) and nothing could change that fact.

Lonliness eventually forced me to face online dating. Little by little disgust became tolerable discomfort and expected. Surprise pictures of creepy ass dudes flashing me a penis pic is still the last way to interest me but no longer upset me. After I learned to tough past the shock it occurred that some of these were freaky looking. Only a few were nice looking... then it hit me. "HELLO lady wake up, catch up and pay attention cuz you no longer have to be a w**** to know that many boners have a curve! Super great to learn.  LOL never thought creepy boner pics could help me be a better mom. This was important info I couldn't wait to share. At the first chance I'd somehow randomly mention for both my son's to hear. Then play it off as a "mom you're weird" moment and let it go. With zero BS, no "aww you're perfect in mommies eyes" c**p, a very new world existed where curves were normal and odd looking penises weren't too freaky for love! I shared the wonderful facts.." about half are straight and half not." Boy did the right kid spring up and play dumb..."what'd ya say...mom???"he asked out loud and in his head..."Did  you say I'm not a freak...mom? Did I just get a new chance to be a regular dude...mom?

So curves are normal. Now at what point does a curved penis leave an acceptable curve range and start to get freaky? I know this is still affecting his body image. He's good looking, smart popular and has a hoard of girls-fans that go to his many performances to cheer like no other kid on any stage I've seen. Yet at 17 my super late bloomer hasn't had a first kiss. I know it's not a question of boys vs girls holding him back. I'm sure he's still terrified of where a kiss will lead. Last year 3 girlfriend type relationships crashed quickly but gave him  a little (overdue) experience. Now he's nearly 3 months into what's looks a the real thing. A tongue kiss can only be avoided for so long.

So ladies, gentlemen, guys and girls tell me what you think for me or other young guys with bend issues, any info is helpful even you girls out there...how much laughing would you gals do? Men... can a bent boner even partake in intercourse etc. :) I want your truth, your opinion, feelings and facts good and bad. :) Thank you