Hi all! I am 20 and recently lost my virginity. The guy I'm with, I find, is on the big side, and we've had sex a total of 4 times. In July, we had sex 3 out of the 4 times (July 3rd, 18th (1st day of period), and 31st). Those 3 times, we didn't use a condom the whole time. I bought Next Choice on July 3rd. Well I've had lower backaches the whole month into this month. I also get period symptoms. I will admit that in the past 2 years, my PMS has gotten worse. My period is usually a 31 or 32 day cycle.
Well back to the intercourse, he never came in me either times. On the 18th and 31st however, I made him urinate after he came each time. We had sex over 2 hours each time (not an ongoing thing but off and on). What are the chances that the pains I'm feeling are from early pregnancy? Could the back pain be due to me recently losing my virginity and not being used to it? Could the period symptoms be my mind or him hitting my cervix during sex (he does do that a lot)? What are my chances of pregnancy from precum? I just would like a little help on the issue. Mostly the back pain. It's not fun especially for my job where I have to pick up things. My back hurts most there (it always did), but now that I'm having sex, I'm paying more attention to it.
Oh and I feel like maybe I'm a bad person for having sex. What are you guys' thoughts on that? I don't mind criticism. I admit it wasn't smart to have unprotected sex my very first times. If not having sex is what you guys think is best for me, I will use that and apply it in my life. I'm definitely not ready to be a mother. Psh not til I'm like 50 (lol exaggerating) but you know what I mean :)
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