I am a 21 year old female and was first sexually active at age 16, but I only engaged in oral sex with my partner at the time. I have now had 3 sexual partners since then, including my current girlfriend, and have never had anything inside me bigger around than 3 fingers. I have bled a couple of times in the last 2-3 years while masturbating, but I assumed I was too rough or was not lubricated enough. I didn't have any bleeding with my former partners (all were over a year ago), and my last girlfriend and I engaged in rough sex regularly. We had sex maybe 4-5 times daily, so I am pretty positive that my hymen has already been torn, if not sooner than that. My current girlfriend and I have been sexually active for the last month or so, with sometimes a week in between, and I bleed pretty heavily every time she fingers me. There is no pain and when it happened the first time we had sex, we figured it was because I hadn't had sex in close to a year. We kept the same assumption the second time we had sex, even the third. But it's been over a month and we're both really concerned about it now. We tried taking it much slower to make sure there was enough lubrication, making sure her fingernails were cut short enough to not accidentally scratch me, and even having her just use 1 finger in case I was just being stretched too much. But every time, within seconds, I start bleeding. It has become really frustrating because we always have to stop, but twice we have kept going because it wasn't hurting me and she wanted to make sure I was satisfied. As soon as we finished, the bed and her hand were both completely covered in blood (I'm sorry, I know that's gross to read). As soon as I clean up, there is no more bleeding and there is still no pain. That worst day was yesterday and today is the first time I have had a mucous-like discharge that seemed to have blood in it. I have read about the different potential causes, and although I can't be 100% sure without getting tested, I really don't believe it's chlamydia or gonorrhea, which were both common causes. Also, I shouldn't be getting my period for another two weeks, so I don't believe it's pre- or post-menstrual bleeding since it has occurred the entire month. I am scheduling an appointment with my gynecologist asap, but I wanted to know if anyone else has had a similar situation. I would appreciate any advice! P.S.- Sorry for the long post, but I figure it covers questions responders might ask anyway!