Hi I'm 18 yrs old, and I have a couple of questions. The last time I had my period was on Dec. 28th through Jan 3rd. On the night of January 3rd me and my boyfriend had sex because I had checked if I had finished my period (I had finished therefore we had sex) Every time we have sex we use condoms, and every time he finishes he pulls out. We also make sure of checking the condoms to see if they broke, and that night the condom was perfectly fine. My question here is, before me and my boyfriend had sex (maybe 2 hours or so before) I had given him a hand job and he finished in my hand. Of course he cleaned up, he also told me he peed right after, and I had washed my hands after all of that happened. Right before we had  sex I started giving my boyfriend another hand job to help him get hard and (hand job was a bit messy since I had to use my saliva to lubricate him) well when he handed me the condom (still in the wrapper) I had to use both my hands to open the wrapper and to find what way the condom was supposed to go on and also grabbed the tip of the condom to prevent any air bubbles and leave some space for when he ejaculates. Do you think I should of washed my hands before touching the condom? (this is my first question) Could this lead to pregnancy? Is there a chance of semen still being present even after my boyfriend had peed? I know you're least likely to get pregnant at the end of your period, but it's still possible. 

now lets fast forward to Jan 10 (night time) me and my boyfriend had sex again on that night. We had sex 3 times that night and yeah it was kind of rough and he was penetrating me pretty deep and at certain points it did hurt but it still felt good. We also used condoms all 3 times and none of the condoms broke and they were perfectly fine when we checked them (we checked them like 3 times each) Then on Jan 11th in the morning me and my boyfriend had sex 2 more times and it was pretty rough. The first time we had sex that morning we were using the same type of condoms as the night before, then the second time, we used a flavored condom which I did not like because it was not lubricated at all when we were having sex, and it was harder to keep going, yet we kept going. I feel like that last time was really rough and hurt because there wasn't enough lubrication. We had sex the last time around 11:30am. Then on Jan 12th around 11:15 am I was in the bathroom and I had peed and then I wiped with toilet paper and there was blood (spotting, it was red) and it kept bleeding throughout the day (also it was my 16th day of my cycle, and I'm supposed to start ovulating on Jan 13th). I would check with toilet paper by getting a bit inside of my vagina to see if there was blood and there would be, but then it would stop, so with my fingers I would go deeper, closer to my cervix and my fingers would have blood. I have no cramps, my vagina is not in pain, though my body was sore the rest of the afternoon on Jan 12th. Today I am bleeding a bit heavier, the blood is bright red. Could the bleeding be happening from rough sex and penetrating really deep? may I remind you, 5 times (bruised cervix?) or could it be that I'm going through implantation spotting, although if that were the case that would mean I started bleeding nine days after I could of gotten pregnant (from the night I had finished my period and grabbed the condom with my hands) (My fertile wind is from Jan 13th-19th) Please someone tell me what you think could be wrong. 

​Thank you!