Hi im almost 13 (girl) I am in love with this boy , he's my world and he makes my day, he solves any problem I have, he just barley turned 14 in may, he has shown to me that he wouldn't hurt me and he has proved it, he also has shown to me that he would do ANYTHING for me, I have breathing problems at night, and sometimes he'll seek into my house, crawl into my window and cuddle me to make me feel better , I don't want sex to hurt and I know im very young Is there anyway I could break my himen so that way sex wouldn't hurt I know I am very young, half of me says yes he's an amazing guy , the other half says your too young I have no idea what to do, I don't want to lose him, and I want to please him , please help I have no clue what to do thanks -xoxo
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Hi Mariah carpenter
Sweety, you are way too young to have sex. At that age sex organs aren't that developed to permit sex - you might end up with a vaginal tear. I do agree some girls mature early, some don't - but still it is an avoidable risk. Not to mention, if you are having your periods already - you do risk a pregnancy which will be quite awkward and uncomfortable at your age. Hope you understand
There are lot many activities both of you can enjoy instead of indulging in physical sex. Cuddling up together is one of them. Good luck
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