I have been married to my husband for over 9 years now. Before we got married we cuddled all the time. Well now I can't even get him to let me put my hand on his chest while we sleep. The odd thing is he shows affection without problem. He is constantly smacking my butt or groping me when my daughter isn't looking. We have sex on a regular basis and I love you's are free flowing. While we are in public he always puts his arm around me, but as soon as we are at home I literally have to fight him to let me cuddle up next to him on the couch. I was told tell him how you feel and I do! I will beg him to just cuddle a little with me and he just says no thank you. The messed up thing is I was never a big cuddler before I met him. He made me want to cuddle and now literally fights me off or if he does cuddle it while we watch TV, he will calculate how much time he has cuddled like he had given me this huge gift. So what do I do to alleviate my cuddling need...I take naps and cuddle with my pillows. Lets just say it is way less satisfying and he is always saying I am boring because I nap on the weekend. He always uses the excuse that it is too hot now, but the weather turned cold the other day and he was having to wear a sweatshirt around the house. So, hey it is chilly enough to wear a sweatshirt so why not cuddle right?...Nope I got no thank you. I feel like he takes me for granted and only cares about his own needs.
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