Hi everyone My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 months now, and sometimes when I go over to her house we sit on her bed and make out, the last couple of times in particular I have put my hands down her pants, (she hinted that she wanted me to do this) but as we make out and I finger her, she puts her hand on my upper leg and sort of reaches for my zipper, at this time I nudge her back on the bed, and just try to pleasure her more to try and avoid her getting in my pants. ( I hate having to do this). I am just really worried because, being 16 (she is to) and my foreskin can't be fully retracted because the part of skin connecting my meatus (I think it's called) to my shaft is a bit short. I'm positive it's not my foreskin being to tight, but definatly that bit of skin, I think it's called a frenulum but not sure if that is correct spelling, but otherwise nicknamed the "banjo string" is too short. This concerns me a lot, that she will go to give me a blowjob or hand job, she sees my penis and gets put off all together, or just puts it back in my pants. What should I do? I have heard that stretching sometimes works, can anyone give me any stretching techniques or methods that I can do. I am really embarrassed about this and prefer not to tell my folks or see a doctor. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP! Many thanks
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Stretch your banjo string you need to pull your foreskin back as far as possible and hold it for a minute then let it in back and repeat again do this 2 or 3 times a day, you can also take hold of your banjo string and stretch it by pulling gently.
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Hi Guest, sounds like you have had some great advice from the guys. From a girl's point of view, talk to your girlfriend. If she cares about you then she should be OK with this. It can be hard but talking about that sort of stuff is important in a relationship. If you don't talk to her and push her hand away when she tries to pleasure you she might jump to other conclusions and think you don't want her and feel rejected. If you don't talk she will be confused and possibly hurt. I know it is scary because you don't want her to reject you. Chances are that she wont. Most girls don't really care what a penis looks like, it's size, circumcised or not etc. If she really cares about you none of that will matter. She wants to please you,
Also, follow the guy's advice, but if that doesn't help do see a doctor. Doctors deal with this sort of stuff all the time so they will be sensitive. It might be embarrassing for you because you have never talked to anyone about it before. They know that and they do talk about sexual health all the time, every day so they are comfortable with helping you.
I hope that helps. All the best
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Again lots of thanks to everyone for the very informative responses :)
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