Hi guys,
Not usually one to post online concerning a topic like this (hence the anonymity) so bear with me if this sounds daft.
Basically I've been going out with my girlfriend for a month or so (we're both 18 and heterosexual), and I really like her (we've done the whole, love you/you too schitck if that matters). Anyhoo, she said from the off that it would take her some time to feel ready for sex (she's a sort of lapsed Christian) on account of her valuing sex and because she's never done it before. I'm totally fine with that of course, and aside from asking her the first time I haven't mentioned it. We've sort of done everything up-to-but-not-including since.
I visited her folks a week ago and while I was there she told me that she was nearly ready, so I'm sort of nervy. This is a big thing for her, and I don't want to put her off for life. I'm hardly a lothario but I've already had a long-term relationship and the odd one-nighter so I sort of know what I'm getting into, I'm just worried that she doesn't. I know it sounds kinda corny but I want this to be a bit special for her.
Anyone got any ideas on what might be best to ease her in (ah har har, pun) and on what I should avoid if I don't want to turn her gay overnight?
Ta for letting me gush :)
Not usually one to post online concerning a topic like this (hence the anonymity) so bear with me if this sounds daft.
Basically I've been going out with my girlfriend for a month or so (we're both 18 and heterosexual), and I really like her (we've done the whole, love you/you too schitck if that matters). Anyhoo, she said from the off that it would take her some time to feel ready for sex (she's a sort of lapsed Christian) on account of her valuing sex and because she's never done it before. I'm totally fine with that of course, and aside from asking her the first time I haven't mentioned it. We've sort of done everything up-to-but-not-including since.
I visited her folks a week ago and while I was there she told me that she was nearly ready, so I'm sort of nervy. This is a big thing for her, and I don't want to put her off for life. I'm hardly a lothario but I've already had a long-term relationship and the odd one-nighter so I sort of know what I'm getting into, I'm just worried that she doesn't. I know it sounds kinda corny but I want this to be a bit special for her.
Anyone got any ideas on what might be best to ease her in (ah har har, pun) and on what I should avoid if I don't want to turn her gay overnight?
Ta for letting me gush :)
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take it SLOW!! the more aroused she is the better it will feel. make sure she is real wet before entering her and if not then shes not aroused... if she says she is and still not very wet use some lube to make things easier. RESPECT HER and if she says to stop or it hurts then do what she says. talk to her and be caring...... women get off more with emotion that raw physical feeling....
just take your time spend plenty of time in forplay and if you want ask her what feels good to her. evry women is different.
does this make sense??
always practice safe sex. it only takes one sperm cell to make a baby ;-)
just take your time spend plenty of time in forplay and if you want ask her what feels good to her. evry women is different.
does this make sense??
always practice safe sex. it only takes one sperm cell to make a baby ;-)
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