I've been going out with this girl for about 3 months, she just turned 16 a few months ago and I turn 17 in about a month.
She seems to like to 'dry hump' a lot, as well as let me sort of massage her, but nothing under the pants or panties. When i try to do anything more she says stop and the few times that we've talked about it further she says shes afraid that it will lead to sex and shes afraid of sex. Every time i ask what, exactly, about sex shes afraid of, she gets all uncomfortable and we end up just trying to forget about it and chill out for a while.
As im sure other guys know, dry humping is not great for the guy. That said, i have no idea how it is for the girl, but getting a guys body worked up for sex and then not climaxing is... painful, to say the least.
Actually the 'blue-balls' have kind of started to go away but i still want to have sex with her every time we hang out, or at least get past just making out and fooling around.
any input?
She seems to like to 'dry hump' a lot, as well as let me sort of massage her, but nothing under the pants or panties. When i try to do anything more she says stop and the few times that we've talked about it further she says shes afraid that it will lead to sex and shes afraid of sex. Every time i ask what, exactly, about sex shes afraid of, she gets all uncomfortable and we end up just trying to forget about it and chill out for a while.
As im sure other guys know, dry humping is not great for the guy. That said, i have no idea how it is for the girl, but getting a guys body worked up for sex and then not climaxing is... painful, to say the least.
Actually the 'blue-balls' have kind of started to go away but i still want to have sex with her every time we hang out, or at least get past just making out and fooling around.
any input?
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yea there is a way out, before you go see her or over at her place - masturbate and just dream of the sex with her, XD and then you may be luck not to be so hard around her, A) you will not have enough sperm to get her pregnate :O , B) it will not be a tease to you as much, o.O and if she watches, she may loose up some. 8) C) there is always to find other fishes that do let you "feel them up" and keep her the way she is 8-|
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Damn do i get the sh**s from dry humping. Oh Christ did i just say that?
Seriously though, I seem to be having a similar complication with my present girlfriend.
Ask her what she likes you to do. Does she masturbate?
This might break the ice on the issue, even though it might turn south.
Kiss her stomach for a while and then see where she'll let you go.
Good Luck and make sure she's always comfortable with what you do.
Seriously though, I seem to be having a similar complication with my present girlfriend.
Ask her what she likes you to do. Does she masturbate?
This might break the ice on the issue, even though it might turn south.
Kiss her stomach for a while and then see where she'll let you go.
Good Luck and make sure she's always comfortable with what you do.
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She's afraid you might get her pregnant even if you both use protection.
If you both truly love each other at a young age then you would wait until shes ok with sex, you could on the other hand break up with her because you want sex and then shes says ok we have sex but that depends on how low you want to go.
Have you talked about Oral sex or hand job?
If you both truly love each other at a young age then you would wait until shes ok with sex, you could on the other hand break up with her because you want sex and then shes says ok we have sex but that depends on how low you want to go.
Have you talked about Oral sex or hand job?
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