Basically I have loads of guy friends and we're all really good mates.I have quite a lot of friends who are girls but it's getting kinda hard to hang out with them because they're all really hot and I just wanna snog them!I don't know if I am turning into a lesbian or not but i've had a few boyfriends before but broke up with them because I felt nothing.I have two best friends and we've kissed a few times on the lips because we're like best friends but when we kiss I just wanna snog them and it's hard to control because they're really hot!The thing is,lots of my friends think being a lesbian is gross and im scared to even mention it.I really need help to control these feelings
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being lesbian is not bad.its something nt in ur contol..its a natural thing which is beyond ur control.so dont feel low yaar..i have many lesbian friends.just d way a boy like girl or vice-versa d same ways u r attracted towards gals..a great proportion of gals have some attraction for gals even though they may appear hanging out with guys and feeling fr guys at d same time..n many gals are attracted towards gals only..dont b ashamed of ur sexuality
n yes u have to control ur emotions..u may feel like snogging ur friends bt ur friends might not feel d same n any desperate act of urs may affect ur frndship.u must b aware of the mentality of ur frns..if they r broad minded gals they will accept u and will understand u.n if any of ur best friends r lesbian or bi-sexual they(or any1 of den) can think of u beyond friendship if aware of ur sexuality.
even if ur friends are not broad minded then also they shud accept u the way u r and understand u.if they cannot understand u then they are not ur true friends.also i wud like to say tat if u share this wd ur frnds then u need to b careful also..cz ur way of showing affection to dem may b misunderstood by dem..u have to find peace in urself..u must focuss on urself..like ur goals from life etc..n yes ur true friends will always b wd u regardless of ur sexulality.u didnt opt to b lesbian dear.its a natural thing and not something u opted for.u need to understand ppl around u.n can share ur sexuality on d basis of tat understanding.
n yes if ur friends(gals) are straight and not interested beyond friendhip then u will come to know tat there is no future beyond friendship then u will automatically control ur emotions.first share ur sexuality wd ur best friends.if u cant then just ask dem abt their sexuality.if ur friends are lesbian then their iz a possibility of a relationship.n if they are bi-sexual then u can b more than friends like friends wd benefit..but then u cannot b assured of longevity of d relationship and have to prepare urself for d seperation.if they are staright then u can hide ur sexuality if u r not comfortable in sharing and also becoz u cannot b more than friends in such case.
one more thing..for ur sexual desire u have ur life..but u must achieve ur objectives from life..like gettng settled in a profession etc
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