Well the main reason I'm writing this is because I'm confused with my sexuality! Ever since I was little I loved boys, and never once interested in girls. I've had crushes and major ones too! I have a lot of friends that are girls but I've never had a crush on any of them, I think girls are pretty even hot sometimes and I think their body's are beautiful but not in the sexual way just in admiration. But in December someone asked me if I was a lesbian and it's been the topic on my mind ever since. I have lost all my attraction to boys from it and now seem to be looking at girls and their body's and everything now. It has taken over my life and I don't know what to do. I have watched both straight and lesbian porn and both turned me on. But I only think it turns me on when masturbating other then that I never think of girls as more then close friends! I'm really femine and not butch and I'm a normal teenager but I feel so gay now. I mean I can't see boys in a romantic way anymore, I'm scared ill never get back with them. I once had a dreamed about kissing a girl and it turned me on I guess but I do not want to kiss a girl or even go near one. But ever since I've thought about it now it seems not so bad, like sometimes it doesn't seem so bad but I mean I wouldn't really want to touch a girl at all! But sometimes my minds, maybe you do?? I'm scared ill never get turned on by a guy but will a girl? I love boys or did so I thought but now I don't feel anything for them anymore, it's so scary and I hate it! I'm a bit of an obsessive freak and worry about the little things for some reason. And rumours have been going around that I'm a lesbian and now I'm so scared that people think I am one or that I have characteristics or a lesbian. I mean I don't think i would be completely a lesbian but maybe bi? Even though I defiantly do not want too. And I'm really scared to hang out with girls because I feel as if ill get aroused and wet. And for some reason I always feel aroused now and then when I look I'm wet too. I mean I would never have a sexual experience with a girl can't even imagine kissing one. I just want my attraction to boys back, does anyone know how to get it back??
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When i was young , i used to stay wif mom mostly . Moreover , my mom let me play.wif.girl and wear girl accessories .
I.guess that's the only way to change my mind to interest in boys instead of interesting in girls. And it is associated wif Hormone . You just had to change yourself by mentally . Dun afraid to stay wif girl , friend wif them . Let ur mind free and solve ur problem by yourself by mentally or emotionally . Dun Give Up , I know U can Do it . becoz you know interest in girl is not true way of life and u wanna to change . So Keep going and do as you please . If.you want to kiss girl , let ur mind free . But dun let know everyone !!! Later , you will feel the smell of boys and power . You want to explore !! Stay as a girl , but dun let know everyone what things inside your mind have . ^_^ Hope U'll be Ok .
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I apologize, but I forget how old you are. Anyway, I guess you know how guys get random boners for no reason, especially at the worst possible times? It doesn't mean you're actually aroused by whatever you're looking at or thinking about.
Anyway I don't know for sure, but I wouldn't be surprised if this happened for girls too. It doesn't mean you're a lesbian.
I'm sorry about the rumors, I hate that kind of thing and it's happened to me too (people think I'm gay because I've never had a girlfriend or even any real romantic feelings). All I can say is try not to let it get to you. Feel free to PM me if you want to talk about anything.
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It's not weird at all. Most lesbians don't hate boys, a lot of us are horrible but not everyone. Anyway, you can't force it to happen but it's fine not to be attracted to anyone. It doesn't make you weird or abnormal. I wish I could help you :(
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I don't hate them at all, I just want my attraction back and I don't to be with a girl or even like one.
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This probably isn't helpful, but... just try not to worry about it, if you aren't attracted to anyone now it's okay, it doesn't mean you won't be attracted to anyone in the future. Maybe join a club or something? Just find some nice guys and get to know them, maybe you'll become attracted to them.
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If you look on here you will see you are not the only one that feels this way!! YOU ARE NOT A LESBIAN!!! all young women go through this. I can NOT express that enough!! I went through this and I was boy CRAZY!! like I thought I would be a slutt because I was so boy crazy. I'm not a slutt, I just liked boys so much when I was younger. I still do. My sister is gay and I hung around her a lot and I started to question my sexuality because there were so many beautiful lesbians, like pretty girls not butch ones like you may think ( and I thought all lesbian were dykes, looked like guys).
But my sister is pretty and nice body so I didn't even know for a long time. But after she told me I was like "wow. But you don't look like a /guy dyke." She is what she calls a "lipstick lesbian" and she likes butchies LOL. Todays youth is so obsessed with sex and feeling free to do whatever they want and I think it confuses everybody. I think people are just desensitized to it. It is normal to question it. And it is normal to have sexual dreams about girls. You can't control your dreams. I have found that when it is time for my period I have very sexual dreams some very disturbing to me!! Things I would never think about awake.
Every now and then I will get so disgusted by men I wish I could be gay but I could NOT have sex w/a girl. Just relax and KNOW that all those people that say you're a lesbian have themselves thought about if they are lesbian or gay at some point! I PROMISE you that!! Don't let them get to you just relax and ignore them. you like boys. AND girls are sexy and some have great bodies. looking and admiring is not gay. We all appreciate beautiful things. Be strong! Keep your head up and stop the obsession of what people think! who gives a c**p.:-D
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