I am 14 and I'm in high school. I am gay and want to tell my friends, but I am so worried that they will no longer like me. I have had a sexual experience with another guy and I did enjoy it. I just want to know how to tell my friends I am gay, and how to find a boyfriend without hitting on a heterosexual.
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Comin out is ALWAYS a stressful thing, i went through it wen i liked one of my girl frendz, she was bi, i WAS straight, we confessed how much we liked each other & went out, i mean, she still likes girls but i like guys again now, i THOUGHT i was Bi but it turned out to b just a pahse (i was 15 then)
do u really have to tell ur frendz NOW? y dont u just wait till u'v had more experience wid another guy & ur less nervous, it'll b easier dat way. I'm not sayin u r BUT ur young, curious, is it possible it's just a phase ur goin through?
~Aoi~ (17 now)
do u really have to tell ur frendz NOW? y dont u just wait till u'v had more experience wid another guy & ur less nervous, it'll b easier dat way. I'm not sayin u r BUT ur young, curious, is it possible it's just a phase ur goin through?
~Aoi~ (17 now)
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Hi!! I'm LinZ. I'm a 20 year old female and a lesbian. I think I can help you!! Coming out is a very hard thing to do. No matter how well you plan things out, you may end up losing friends.
When I came out, I lost friends and their respect. Some of them eventually got over the initial shock, but some of them I don't talk to anymore.
I would come out to a close friend first. This needs to be a friend that you know you could trust with your life. You can talk to this friend and ask him/her, "Well how to you think ________ will feel about this?" "Do you think our other friends will accept me?"
Does you family know? If not, and you don't want them finding out anytime soon, you need to make sure the friends you tell won't go tell their parents who will then call you parents and then they will definitely know.
As far as finding someone, you just have to watch guy's mannerisms. Usually you can pick up on guys that are gay. It's a little something I like to call gay-dar...it's not an insult to gays or anything because why would I insult myself? Exactly.
I will help you as much as you need me to, because I've been where you are and I know it can be difficult.
I hope I've helped you some. Feel free to talk to me!!
--LinZ
When I came out, I lost friends and their respect. Some of them eventually got over the initial shock, but some of them I don't talk to anymore.
I would come out to a close friend first. This needs to be a friend that you know you could trust with your life. You can talk to this friend and ask him/her, "Well how to you think ________ will feel about this?" "Do you think our other friends will accept me?"
Does you family know? If not, and you don't want them finding out anytime soon, you need to make sure the friends you tell won't go tell their parents who will then call you parents and then they will definitely know.
As far as finding someone, you just have to watch guy's mannerisms. Usually you can pick up on guys that are gay. It's a little something I like to call gay-dar...it's not an insult to gays or anything because why would I insult myself? Exactly.
I will help you as much as you need me to, because I've been where you are and I know it can be difficult.
I hope I've helped you some. Feel free to talk to me!!
--LinZ
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hey, i' have to say i'm a very metro 16 year old and i've been hit on by gay guys on several occasions. basically it's not that uncomfortable but you just have to let them know you're straight and both of you will feel more respect for eachother than if you just ignored it or snubbed one person out
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u should find a close friend. Either gay or straight who cares u. Tell him but don't let the others know. OR u would experience lots of changes either good or bad. It's the way to maintain ur current situation,
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