I want to know at what age it is good to first have sex at?

There is no real age that would be appropriate in having sex for the first time...but please....DON'T HAVE SEX BECAUSE EVERYONE ELSE IS DOING IT!!!! You will encounter this for the rest of your life...the true test of someone's maturity is how they handle peer pressure. Sex is something that is a wonderful experience...I won't lie to you about that. But it is very important to realize the pleasures of sex...but the consequences of it as well. Believe me...your view of life is much different at 13 than it is at 23 or 33. Everything that you do now as a 13 year old will affect you at a later time in your life...whether it be days, months or years...the bad choice will have consequences. That is where maturity comes in....you will be able to recognize which is a wise and not so wise choices. I understand peer pressure....been there, done that. Sometimes the best choice for you is not the most popular one for the rest of your friends. You have to look out for yourself for your own good...not because your friends are pushing you to have it. That is having sex for all of the wrong reasons. You have your whole life a head of you...be a teenager....enjoy being a teenager...you will have the rest of your life to deal with this issue.

First of all, like said above, there is no 'right' time to have sex. It depends on when you are mature enough physically and emotionally. And in my opinion, once you have completely figured out birth control (which goes along with being mature enough...)

Once you find someone you want to have sex with it shouldn't be 'awkward' because sex isn't just something you randomly ask someone. If you ask your girlfriend if she wants to have sex then she'll either say yes or no but you need to communicate it. If you ask a good friend if she would ever sleep with you then she shouldn't spread that around either if shes a good friend. Usually sex happens more naturally though. It's not a "so uh wanna have sex?" thing... a lot of the time it just naturally progresses to that point because you'd been fooling around and stuff.


Take it as it comes ;-)

I agree with both. Wait until you feel mature enough and are ready. there isnt a "right" time to have sex. Everyone matures at their own pace and feels comfortable with having sex at a different time in their life than others. My friends and I all had sex for the first time at different times in our lives. I am happy to say that i waited. Dont feel pressured to have sex just because everyone else is doing it. Enjoy being a teenager....the time will come in your life when you will feel that you are ready to have sex.

i had a frend have sex when she was 11 and she only did it because of peer presher she has regreted it since

so pleas dont take that path

 

Hi I want to knw that I am going to get marry soon and I didn't told my fiance that I had sex once. Will he come to know that I had sex and I am not a virgin on the wedding night?

hi sara

i think that if it is not agains your religen it should be ok but i think that u should talk to him about it becase yes he will findout on the wedding night and if u have only had sex once and u are still tight tell him to take it slow but yeah i think that u should talk to him about it


i hope that this helps