Hi everyone, i have a problem right? i'm 17 and i'm still a virgin but i've been temped by some of my friends who were talking about their sex experiences.Honestly i want to do it but then again i don't, because first of all i'm scared of the pain i think that is a sin, and i want the man that i'm going to marry to get it. Sometimes when i'm watching tv i feel like i'm ready.What should i do?
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You should follow your head. If you have doubts over whether you are ready then don't risk making the wrong desicion! Virginity is a beautiful thing to hold on to!
Just from your post, It becomes clear that your temptation for sex is coming from the television and your freinds. It's called peer pressure!! Sound familiar? Hehe. Trust me: thats the WORST way to end up losing your virginity.
Don't feel ashamed that you have doubts, its just your head and your conscience talking to you. Perhaps following your raging teenage hormones might be a bad idea this time. It's normal to be sexually curious at our age!
Have sex when there are NO doubts. when you are 100% certain and unwavering in your desicion. Also, be sure to talk to a planned parenthood/family planning clinic or parents or a doctor before you have sex, and make sure you are protected!
Just from your post, It becomes clear that your temptation for sex is coming from the television and your freinds. It's called peer pressure!! Sound familiar? Hehe. Trust me: thats the WORST way to end up losing your virginity.
Don't feel ashamed that you have doubts, its just your head and your conscience talking to you. Perhaps following your raging teenage hormones might be a bad idea this time. It's normal to be sexually curious at our age!
Have sex when there are NO doubts. when you are 100% certain and unwavering in your desicion. Also, be sure to talk to a planned parenthood/family planning clinic or parents or a doctor before you have sex, and make sure you are protected!
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I know how you feel. I'm 16 and still a virgin. Luckily, I have really supportive friends and family, and I feel totally comfortable waiting for the right man. Sure, TV makes me feel depressed.
"Gosh I'm a loser. Pretty much everyone has lost their virginity by now, right? Maybe I'm just unattractive and no one would have sex with me anyway."
Girls think it all the time, and I always get so upset about it, but then when I think about how special sharing it with the man I love will be, it doesn't seem to matter anymore. Sex is certainly something I don't take lightly, and it's good you don't either! Do yourself a favor and save it for that special guy! Don't be pressured, be proud of it! And most guys, I hear, prefer those girls with that ideal.
There are so many girls like us out there, but we should never feel pressured into sex. Good luck, and be careful! :-)
-Amanda
"Gosh I'm a loser. Pretty much everyone has lost their virginity by now, right? Maybe I'm just unattractive and no one would have sex with me anyway."
Girls think it all the time, and I always get so upset about it, but then when I think about how special sharing it with the man I love will be, it doesn't seem to matter anymore. Sex is certainly something I don't take lightly, and it's good you don't either! Do yourself a favor and save it for that special guy! Don't be pressured, be proud of it! And most guys, I hear, prefer those girls with that ideal.
There are so many girls like us out there, but we should never feel pressured into sex. Good luck, and be careful! :-)
-Amanda
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