Ok so i am younger than 13 by one year. and all of my friends have had sex.we are in 7 th grade and im not sure if i should some people have tryed to tell me i should but i dont know if i want to or not i know i would feel alot of guilt if i did. i dont think i will but does anyine else feel this way?
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hey
if you don't want to have sex, don't let others pressure you into it
you've probably heard this before, but your virginity is actually something very important! don't waste it on some guy who won't even appreciate it
i personally think waiting is a good idea. i'm almost 17 and i'm a virgin too and not afraid to say it if someone asks (which comes up quite a bit. at my school, everyone's sleeping with everyone pretty much.)
if you're embarrassed about being a virgin, don't be. there's nothing wrong with it, expecially if you're only 12! you'll have plenty of time for sex when you're older anyway, hopefully with someone who fully appreciates you
also, if you look at some other posts on this site, there are quite a few people who have had sex before and are about to get married or something like that, and they suddenly want their virginity back so that they 1- don't have to tell their fiance and 2- can give their first time to someone they really care about. so remember there can be future consequences as well (besides pregnancy and all that)
if your friends have all had sex, that's their choice, but don't let them tell you what to do with your body.
if you already know you're probably going to feel guilty afterwards, i think that's showing that you're either not ready or that you simply don't want it
this is my opinion, but it's your choice. don't let people pressure you into something that you don't want to do
hope this helped!
if you don't want to have sex, don't let others pressure you into it
you've probably heard this before, but your virginity is actually something very important! don't waste it on some guy who won't even appreciate it
i personally think waiting is a good idea. i'm almost 17 and i'm a virgin too and not afraid to say it if someone asks (which comes up quite a bit. at my school, everyone's sleeping with everyone pretty much.)
if you're embarrassed about being a virgin, don't be. there's nothing wrong with it, expecially if you're only 12! you'll have plenty of time for sex when you're older anyway, hopefully with someone who fully appreciates you
also, if you look at some other posts on this site, there are quite a few people who have had sex before and are about to get married or something like that, and they suddenly want their virginity back so that they 1- don't have to tell their fiance and 2- can give their first time to someone they really care about. so remember there can be future consequences as well (besides pregnancy and all that)
if your friends have all had sex, that's their choice, but don't let them tell you what to do with your body.
if you already know you're probably going to feel guilty afterwards, i think that's showing that you're either not ready or that you simply don't want it
this is my opinion, but it's your choice. don't let people pressure you into something that you don't want to do
hope this helped!
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Hey, ill start out being honest, Yes you may feel good during sex BUT if you are hesitant or feel guilt you would not feel much pleasure from it and you might actually even dislike it. Also a great part of sex that makes it SO much better than just the physical feeling is the emotional attachment that is shared during it. I love psychology and have done a lot of research into a lot of subjects and most women say that they wish they would have waited to do it. My best friend was pulled into having sex with a guy and she wasn't sure she wanted to, she told me that every morning she cries because thats one part of her she can never get back and all he did was use her an move on. So to answer your question , You will feel guilt and there are other girls out there who feel just like you do. Don't give into peer pressure, save it so that it can be pleasurable without all the guilt.
~hope you gained something out of this and I really do hope you save that for later.
~hope you gained something out of this and I really do hope you save that for later.
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