Hello
First things first i want to thank all the staff (coders, health doctors, moderators, forum coders etc...) to make this place happen.
I'm 32 years old, i( know i know you would say "Really ?") And, i didn't know where to look i didn't even have the guts to go to a real doctor and ask such question but, i couldn't just sit through it so i searched the internet and, found this forum.
So anyway, is it natural for a guy to masturbate once or twice a month ? And is it healthy ?
Despite that, i took various measures to avoid this to happen, taking herbs, many various activities etc...etc...
I wasn't succeed to do such and avoid my Stimulus to happen, it's comes like an urge and, despite that i might haven't even encountered any sexual content, i just can't hold myself, and, grab a porn n go to shower n the rest happens.
Sadly i'm not married and, sadly no girlfriend to intercourse, for almost few months, i don't know, maybe more, uhhh i just don't know what to do to avoid it
I do it at least once or twice a month (2 times per 1 month period) which is once per 2 weeks i guess
Specially since Coronavirus spread caused me to quarantine myself at home
So anyway, is this some sorta addiction ?, is this would harm your health condition?
Am i seek and need help, if yes how can i avoid this daamn thing to happen to me per 2 weeks perioud ?
Again, thanks in advance.
Regards, Omid
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Hi, so glad you found somewhere you felt comfortable to ask your question, in answer to it masturbate is the most natural thing in the world for both males and females it is also very health to as it can help to relieve stress, it can help with sleep if done just before you go to sleep and it can also be a cardio vascular exercise. If you are only masturbating twice a month you have nothing to worry about at all, if you said you was masturbating 10 times a day then I would say yes you have an addiction.
The only thing I would say avoid is masturbating to porn as that can lead to erectile dysfunction later in life when yotry to have intercourse with woman.
All these people that say masturbation is wrong of it's bad for your health my question is what's the difference if your turned on between having intercourse or just masturbating because the two both lead to the same thing and that's climax.
Enjoy yourself and stop worrying as there is nothing at all wrong with masturbating.
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Thanks for ur patience and support,
Ohhh thanks god, what a relief, i don't know, i thought it's bad since it's out of my control, and since i'm 32 years old i thought it should stop from happening and i shouldn't do that. it happens every 2 weeks however, rare months happens that i only do it once thanks god but, well, since u said it's natural once or twice a month then i just relieved, i was torturing myself i thought it's bad and not appreciate for my age
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As I said it totally normal a lot of guys masturbate daily right up to there late 60 so at only 32 you have nothing to worry about, it is only a sin in some religion's but so is sex before marriage so if it makes you feel good and only you know about it then just enjoy doing it.
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Again, thank you
Yes i wasn't feel good about myself to be honest i really thought that, something is wrong with me but, soon as i read your answer, well, i gotta say that changed alot
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Dear @Blankcanvas002,
Since of last start of my thread, after 23 days ago, i did masturbate today, now i know that your asking in your mind that why am i reporting this ?
Because it took me 23 days to masturbate since i've posted this thread and, for me it's magnificent for it to take me longer to do it rather than the usual 2 weeks or my usual twice a month, usually 15 to 16 days and, for the first time, i wasn't hating myself to do so,
I think what caused my problem was that, i was being too hard to myself every time i've done this so, my body was creating an urge base on that but, since the day that you've told me that's ok and it's natural and u don't have to hate yourself i just, my body didn't create or needed an urgent stimulus for almost a full month, i mean, 23 days is not a full month but, well, at least i've got there for the first time
Ohhhhh, for the first time i gotta say that i'm proud of myself
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