I was wanting to know if this is a problem. I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for five years now and even after sex I tend to masturbate. She gets upset when I do it like soon as we are done so I try to wait 10 mins or so for her to fall asleep. Is there something wrong with me?
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there is a problem in that relationship if you have to hide and masturbate when she goes to sleep ... you probably just have a higher sex drive or libido
you need to either talk to your girlfriend about changing the routine or something to make it satisfying and enough for you...
maybe after you guys have sex, she can continue stimulating you with oral sex or jerking you off (for lack of a better word)...
but sneaking a masturbation session in is a bit of a problem ... if you even feel that you would actually prefer that than her doing things to you, you can masturbate to each other or she can do things like touch herself everywhere, dance for you ... stuff like that ... involve her at least ... don't sneak around ...
you need to either talk to your girlfriend about changing the routine or something to make it satisfying and enough for you...
maybe after you guys have sex, she can continue stimulating you with oral sex or jerking you off (for lack of a better word)...
but sneaking a masturbation session in is a bit of a problem ... if you even feel that you would actually prefer that than her doing things to you, you can masturbate to each other or she can do things like touch herself everywhere, dance for you ... stuff like that ... involve her at least ... don't sneak around ...
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Hello,
Well, my advise to you will be to talk to a doctor about it. Maturbating 10 times a day is not healthy mentally, physically, and spiritually. I want to focus more on the mental issue. Because the more you do it, the more you increase your mental chemicals like adrenaline and serotonin, which are neurotransmitter in the brain. This can become a mental addiction because your body reacts to it positively. I will please you to talk to a doctor (therapist or psy); believe me i have been there and i am still paying the long term effects. talk to your girlfriend and just be honest with her, you need to get some help, i had to ESPECIALLY BECAUSE THESE NEUROTRANSMITTER are addictive (it is all in your brain) and you might end up being powerless about it, so act now.
I will pray for you brother, 10 times is definitely NOT NORMAL.
Well, my advise to you will be to talk to a doctor about it. Maturbating 10 times a day is not healthy mentally, physically, and spiritually. I want to focus more on the mental issue. Because the more you do it, the more you increase your mental chemicals like adrenaline and serotonin, which are neurotransmitter in the brain. This can become a mental addiction because your body reacts to it positively. I will please you to talk to a doctor (therapist or psy); believe me i have been there and i am still paying the long term effects. talk to your girlfriend and just be honest with her, you need to get some help, i had to ESPECIALLY BECAUSE THESE NEUROTRANSMITTER are addictive (it is all in your brain) and you might end up being powerless about it, so act now.
I will pray for you brother, 10 times is definitely NOT NORMAL.
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Jesus christ 10 times a day =|
That can't be normal your Penis might fall off lol
Most times in one day I ever masturbated was 4 or 5 and I thought that was way to much.
But if you're doing it 10 times a day your Girl friend might not being able to satisfy you
That can't be normal your Penis might fall off lol
Most times in one day I ever masturbated was 4 or 5 and I thought that was way to much.
But if you're doing it 10 times a day your Girl friend might not being able to satisfy you
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Well....I'm 16 years old and I masturbate about 5 - 10 times a day....Hehehe.....
Erm...Is That Normal at my Age...
Erm...Is That Normal at my Age...
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I do the same. My penis is in no danger of falling off. Nor is it or my hands sore (yes I said hands).
I think it is a matter of being really turned on.
I started wanking at 10. Although at 8 me and a neighbour girl began playing "Milk the Cow". Surprisingly I was the cow. Due to where my udder was located!
Back on topic... From the time I was 10 I figured things out and have been going at least 8 times a day usually more.
My GF loves it! I can go all night long. When she is done I continue until I am done. She doesn't take it as an insult.
I tell her she turns me on so much that even if she is done I have to continue on myself.
She takes it as a complement!
I think it is a matter of being really turned on.
I started wanking at 10. Although at 8 me and a neighbour girl began playing "Milk the Cow". Surprisingly I was the cow. Due to where my udder was located!
Back on topic... From the time I was 10 I figured things out and have been going at least 8 times a day usually more.
My GF loves it! I can go all night long. When she is done I continue until I am done. She doesn't take it as an insult.
I tell her she turns me on so much that even if she is done I have to continue on myself.
She takes it as a complement!
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I knew if I hung around here long enough I'd find my twin.
I started at 10 and have kept at it faithfully ever since.
I once had a girl who couldn't leave it alone. She took hold of it as soon as she got in my car and kept pumping until it went dry. Then she pumped some more and more and -------. :D
I also shared it with a neighbor girl when I was about 8. Actually there were two of them. One girl's older brother told her that girls have two biscuits and boys have a bat and two balls. They wanted to see that, and I was out numbered. No one thought of milking the cow though. How did you two come up with that?
I negotiated a biscuit check in return and we found a suitable place where no up tight adults would find us. They were really fascinated by the skin that rolled back to reveal a different looking thing hiding underneath and how it stood up as soon as they rolled the skin back. They wanted to play with it often and when they had girl cousins visiting, or just girl friends, they liked to show it to them. I was always willing because it felt good and I got to check out MORE BISCUITS. One of the girls really liked having me check her biscuits. Almost as much as I liked checking them. We did it every chance we got for a year or two. :D
Ahhh, to be young again.
I started at 10 and have kept at it faithfully ever since.
I once had a girl who couldn't leave it alone. She took hold of it as soon as she got in my car and kept pumping until it went dry. Then she pumped some more and more and -------. :D
I also shared it with a neighbor girl when I was about 8. Actually there were two of them. One girl's older brother told her that girls have two biscuits and boys have a bat and two balls. They wanted to see that, and I was out numbered. No one thought of milking the cow though. How did you two come up with that?
I negotiated a biscuit check in return and we found a suitable place where no up tight adults would find us. They were really fascinated by the skin that rolled back to reveal a different looking thing hiding underneath and how it stood up as soon as they rolled the skin back. They wanted to play with it often and when they had girl cousins visiting, or just girl friends, they liked to show it to them. I was always willing because it felt good and I got to check out MORE BISCUITS. One of the girls really liked having me check her biscuits. Almost as much as I liked checking them. We did it every chance we got for a year or two. :D
Ahhh, to be young again.
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To be honest she initiated the "Milking of the Cow"! She also encouraged me to "Flick her Bean"!
I am being totally serious about this.
About 3 years later I lost track of her when she moved away...
14 years later. I began working where she did. She had already had 3 kids...
She was busy in those years.
I am being totally serious about this.
About 3 years later I lost track of her when she moved away...
14 years later. I began working where she did. She had already had 3 kids...
She was busy in those years.
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How old was SHE, when she helped you with those things?
It sounds like she already knew about the joys of life.
The girl who liked me to spread her biscuits and touch the folds of skin I found in there didn't know any more about what they were for than I did. I'm sure she would have instructed me if she had. I know if I had known what to do with that rolling foreskin I certainly would have shown her.
I always longed for an older girl to teach me, but all I got was my boy cousin who showed me how to masturbate when I was ten.
I thought I lucked out once when the preacher's daughter, who was a few years older, took me to her room to "play doctor" while the grown ups were having a prayer meeting. I was horribly disappointed when all she did was show me her toy stethoscope. I was hoping for a "heavenly" experience.
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No one thought of milking the cow though. How did you two come up with that?
To be honest she initiated the "Milking of the Cow"! She also encouraged me to "Flick her Bean"!
How old was SHE, when she helped you with those things?
It sounds like she already knew about the joys of life.
The girl who liked me to spread her biscuits and touch the folds of skin I found in there didn't know any more about what they were for than I did. I'm sure she would have instructed me if she had. I know if I had known what to do with that rolling foreskin I certainly would have shown her.
I always longed for an older girl to teach me, but all I got was my boy cousin who showed me how to masturbate when I was ten.
I thought I lucked out once when the preacher's daughter, who was a few years older, took me to her room to "play doctor" while the grown ups were having a prayer meeting. I was horribly disappointed when all she did was show me her toy stethoscope. I was hoping for a "heavenly" experience.
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You're a regular guy bro. there is nothing wrong with you. I'm 32 and i still masturbate after sex. look at it as a guy thing. you'll be surprised how many men masturbate alot. the only thing i caution you about is cheating. do not cheat on your lady just to satisfy your natural urge. remember that women look at sex as an emotional connection. but to us guys, sex can be an overwhelming pleasurable sensation. if you don't control it, you'll end up cheating and you'll never hold a normal relationship with a girl and getting married will likely end in a divorce cause you cheated. most guys today don't know how to control their sexual urges and that is why marriages do not last im convinced. you are normal but learn to control the yearning. believe me, i understand. try sports like marital arts or weight lifting. that's what keeps me in check sometimes.
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well im 13 and i masturbate every day
the average is about 5 times a day
and im a girl yes a girl girls do it to
it feels sooooooooo good
sometimes i hump a pillow or a stuffed animal and sometimes i watch porn
mostly of people having sex sometimes its a straight couple and sometimes their lesbian
im not lesbian but i still find girls very attractive and they turn me on
i started when i was like 7 but i didnt have an orgasm until i was 12
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yeah i am a guy and i'm 21, i wank about 15 times a day, even though i have a gf, i wake up we have sex, we go to uni, i wank during uni, after uni, then we have sex before we sleep! And i dont know whats wrong with my balls, but i cant stop cumming :S
is there something wrong with me? why cant i stop wanking
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hii this is pondya age 17 yrs
i masturbate 20 t 25 times in a day
and then also i m quite normal
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