I sadly admit sex for me was mainly pleasing my husband. Sure if I had an orgasm it was nice but no explosions. He kept suggesting we try having another person in our bed. I thought he was joking then I was upset he would even suggest it. He said I should experience another man, a bigger one. We started using it as a fantasy during sex and we both got turned on by the suggestion. He convinced me he not only wouldn’t be jealous but that he would be very turned on watching, or joining in. I agreed we should try thinking it would never happen. It took until our later forties, but finally a neighbor home from college went for a swim with us and his speedo showed his interest. My husband started touching me and revealed my breasts. The young man joined in, kissing and touching. We ended up in bed. He would “visit” a few times a week. Both would please me, or my husband would just watch. Eventually the contact between them increased and progressed to them enjoying giving each other oral. I had no previous indication from my husband he had any interest in guys. I admit I encouraged them and enjoyed seeing it. Sadly summer ended and he went back to college. But our sex life is much better for having done it.
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My husband and I have engaged in a few MMF threesomes in the past 3 years. The guys were okay but not a great match for us, so nothing was ongoing. My husband has been honest with me right from the start he has bisexual interest when it comes to sex. I too am bi, but we have not yet invited in another woman. But yes, it is very hot seeing him pleasured by another guy....both orally and anally. And for me, it is a turn on to be pleasured by two guys in all sorts of different ways, and to pleasure both guys in turn. We are highly sexually active and openly talk about our desires with each other. He does not have a jealous bone in his body, and discovered he actually loves seeing me be pleasured by another guy...he said it’s like watching live porn. We can both clearly delineate between loving sex as husband and wife and recreational sex in a MMF situation. Neither of us needs the MMF threesome, but it’s a fun way to explore our sexuality together and expand sexual horizons. It’s not something we do on the regular, but just as an extra “spice” to an already fantastic sex life in the marriage. For us, it works since we are highly sexual, freely discuss our desires with each other, and allow ourselves to be expressive without feeling jealousy. If you’re thinking about MMF, lots of honest, open conversations help, as does talking about the fantasy as part of foreplay/sex. I am happy my husband feels totally comfortable sharing this part of his sexuality with me. It is a huge turn on for us the whole way around. Best of luck to you in whatever you decide to pursue!
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they are awsome , lol. i have 3 kids and have been with my hubi 14 years. 2 months after we met i started having threesoms with him amd hes best mate
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Wife and I are slowly inching our way to FMF, and MMF. We’ve just recently admitted we’re both bi, or at least bi-curious. I can’t wait to see her explore her sexuality with another woman, and I can’t wait to explore mine, TOGETHER. I can’t wait to watch her get penetrated by another man. Sloppy seconds sounds so hot to me. But I worry about jealousy. Any tips on how to deal with that?
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It’s weird. I have been married to my wife for 16 years now. I have had this fantasy of mfm, and dreamed a couple times and I would love to do it just once. When I bring it up to her she says no. She has obviously had a few men in her life, and even said she has had a black guy once. When I bring it up to her she says no way. From time to time when my fantasy gets the best of me and I bring up the topic, she does not budge from her thoughts on the matter. I am an average white guy, and I am more than happy that she is perfectly fine with me, but as we get older, I know my longevity does not last long and I usually stimulate her outer vaginaly to give her a big O. At times she will say I get really big right before I explode in her, and if I could hold on a little longer. So I figured a well indowed man would solve that. I also would love to see her have multiple orgasms, hoping it would happen with a well indowed man. For me, seeing her in complete pleasure, and visually see her in different hot positions that I can’t see when I’m with her would be so hot and sexy. I would not be jealous at all since this is my fantasy I have played in my head many many times. Plus, with a stranger, just doing this one time, would make it a non emotional, pure sex situation. I love her very much and just want to do it just once. The thought of her handling me and another guys, multitasking, sounds so freaking hot. If she would only say yes. I feel that she would handle it fine and play fun with it, but would worry about me being jealous.
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We have been i a MMF threesome in the past. Our long time friend is bi-sexual. But not a practicing one. Meaning that he has had male/male relations. But not in the last number of years. He has been tested a number of times since he does not want to bring anything home to his wife, so to speak. The four of us have had sex in the same room together but never swapped partners, She gave him the green light to be with my wife if it ever came up. She just wanted to know about afterwards if he did..
With that said, One night we found ourselves messing around after skinny dipping in our pool. One thing lead to another and the three of use got fully involved . It seems every guys dream is to see to women make love to each other. In this case it was my wife's dream to see us go down on each other. And we just went with the flow.
If you want to try it. Talk about it with your partner and see if there is any boundaries that you don't want to cross. In our case my wife had already told me that she felt the two of us ( M M) should play for her. It went a little further then I expected. But there are no regrets with the four of us as to what happened . .
With that said, One night we found ourselves messing around after skinny dipping in our pool. One thing lead to another and the three of use got fully involved . It seems every guys dream is to see to women make love to each other. In this case it was my wife's dream to see us go down on each other. And we just went with the flow.
If you want to try it. Talk about it with your partner and see if there is any boundaries that you don't want to cross. In our case my wife had already told me that she felt the two of us ( M M) should play for her. It went a little further then I expected. But there are no regrets with the four of us as to what happened . .
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Yes this is a great experience as long as all involved want to explore and do everything that makes it erotic and satisfying. Do all you can and put for heart in just like you would having sex one on one
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most women don't like that. Those that do want to have a threesome, they do it because the want enjoy it. I can say if you like the first time even though it was a nervous moment to start, it gets better with practice, communication and everyone willing to do anything. Yes guys, engage with your friend in front of your girl or wife or engage with them and do it all, nothing taboo is the only way
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That’s wow your one lucky guy to have a wife open to threesome ....sex gets boring unless your open to new things...
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I wish my wife would agree to a MFM. I have told her my thoughts and she would tell me that if she wanted someone else, she would go get it, but she said she is happy with me. She thinks That I don’t love her if I wanted another person to join. What she does not understand is that I want her to experience some sexual fun and pleasure. Both love and desire from me and pure animal sex and longevity from the 3rd person. Also, my wife does joke around by saying “oh” when the topic of bigger size is mentioned. Again, she would tell me that if she wanted bigger, she would just go get it, but she is happy with me. I just want her not only expecting sex with stranger, but the excitement I would get watching and participating in on the action. Action only to her. I am not gay, nor have experimenting thoughts. Lastly, I would prefer the 3rd person be a black person. The taboo is a plus, but I like the idea of the contrast of her skin and the strangers. In the end, I guess I’ll just keep fantasizing
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Wow, sounds exactly like my situation. I am so glad that there’s one husband out there that would understand exactly how I feel.
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A few years ago I suggested to my wife that we invite a guy from the gym to join us in bed for a threesome. We had joked about her being with another guy but she would never do. But when I suggested the mmf she became interested in exploring the possibility. We read the pro's and cons about doing a threesome and she decided to go for it. With that I asked the guy from the gym, a 30year old muscled blonde to join us, he agreed. We went back to our house, my wife and I started making out, then he started kissing her as I undressed my wife. We all did oral on each other. As my wife sucked me our new friend slid his big penis in her. Wow did she love it and I liked seeing her being pleased by him. We all had a great time and we've had many mmf threesome's since.
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