Hi, Im 28yrs old, and Ive been sexually active since I was 15. (Not sure if that will have any weight in my resolution.) Ive always had an issue with actually getting to cum during sex. Normally I have sex for hours and have to stop before I can cum due to my lady getting to sore and sensitive. This has never been an issue to me as I feel happier knowing i satisfied the woman Im with. Ive been with my current girlfriend for about 3months and have started having some ED issues. The first 2 times were marathon sessions where we had to stop before i could finish. The next time was like 15-20minutes and i came, then another marathon session and now I cant seem to get either of us off as anywhere between 20-45mins and i go soft, not completely but about a semi. It takes a few minutes but I will get hard again, but then she is out of the mood. I dont know what is happening, and its quite disapointing, even though she says it doesnt matter I can tell it kinda does. I can havew an erection for hours before we actually have sex just from snuggling up with her on the couch, so this also confuses me.
Could this be why I go soft during sex? This isnt new to me tho, in the past it isnt unusual for me to have an erection for ages while just being "homey" with a girl before we get to business, and to my recollection I have never gone soft during those sexual activities.
Oral sex is also an issue, I wont go soft recieving it, but have only cum once from a blow job (in my life) and it was a stupid amount of time, over 2 1/2hrs, full of (understandable) complaining from my gf. I really dont know what my issue is here?
Ive never had any other kinds of ED in my life except for when ive been extremely drunk, but Im sure Im not unique in this reguard.
Is this something that I need medication for or is there another explaniation or solution?
All help is apprieciated, Please Help
thankyou :)
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