Ok so im 17 years old. I can easily get an erecrion,sometimes just from a hug from my girlfriend. So like 2 months ago me and her tried to have sex I out the condom on and my penis just went completely went soft. She got a lil mad but then forgave me and said it's ok. Fast forward this incident happened to me 6 times. One time she tried giving me oral before I put it on then it went soft. I can feel my heart beating fast and I think about keeping it up alot. But the weird thing is that I penetrated her one time without a condom easily. When I dont have to put one on my erection stays. What's wrong with me
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Hey Johnnie,
First off let me assure you that there is NOTHING wrong with you... getting and keeping erections is about 90% mental. its easy to get in the mood but then its awkward to pause and mess with a condom. that breaks your concentration and boom your erection disappears. then the next time you go to have sex you're nervous... this alone makes it hard to get and keep an erection. add on top of that the awkwardness of putting on a condom and you have almost no chance at keeping your erection......
The good news it there are a few tricks to help you.... first off do you know how to correctly (yes there is a correct way) use a condom and have you practiced putting one on alone before trying to have sex?
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