I'm 23 years old and I'm still a virgin, I feel like I'm ready to have sex but I'm not in a relationship at the moment.
I'm considering loosing it to a guy i know, again i am not in a relationship at the moment - and neither is the guy i have in mind.
I'm looking to hear from people who have lost their virginity the non-traditional way, i.e. outside of a meaningful relationship.
what are some of the regrets and advice you have. I'm really not looking to hear that i should wait or that its a mistake i would like to make those decisions myself i want to know from first hand experience what life after loosing your virginity to someone who isn't your boyfriend is like.
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my biggest regret was that me and that perso are no longer close. He was my best friend and I lost it to him. It was great and a wonderful learning experience, but now having sex with my boyfriend is so different. There is just a different more loving feeling now then my first time. Its not something I would reccomand. But its not a bad thing either. Just make sure when you look back on this you aren't going to say I wished for something more than what you recived thats all I can say. Put a lot of thought into it. Age is nothing compaired to having sex with someone who you care about and cares about you back. Good luck and I hope this helps :)
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Thank you very much for your response. I get what you are saying about hindsight and waiting for something meaningful and no i don't want this to be a huge mistake so yes i will think about it long and hard. :)
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What you are proposing is risky business on so many levels. First, women have a tendency to get attached to those they have sex with...what if that happens and it's one sided?? Next, before anyone engages in the act they and their partner should be ready for all the possibilities, pregnancy, etc. If there isn't a possiblitly that you and your friend would be ready and willing to give a life and a secure home to a child, you have no business having sex. If you aren't interested in a loving family relationship with this man, then it's way too much of a risk. When you have a lengthy relationship with another person, hopefully the two of you have been faithful to each other and know that it is safe, otherwise it's a shot in the dark, you don't know what kind of bugs this person might be carrying. Condoms don't safeguard against all STDs. If he isn't worth dying for, i say don't do it. You aren't missing that much...sex can be good, but never good enough to suffer for. Hope this helps.
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