hi! umm, i tried having sexual intercourse with my boyfriend yesterday but we had to stop because it was very painful for me. im guessing that it lasted for about 10 or 20 seconds. i was really embarrassed when i had to tell him to stop and that it was hurting me. i mean, i have heard that it hurts when you first loose your virginity but i didn't think it would hurt as much as it did. can someone please tell me maybe how it can not hurt next time i try it and if what i did was considered loosing my virginity? THANK YOU!
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lol well we just tried having sex. that's all. umm.. i dont really know if that helps you out that much. %-)
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Hi. If he penetrated your vagina with his penis then you lost your virginity. The pain could be from lack of lubrication or from the hymen covering the entrance. If it is the hymen, you could try having him finger you to try to break it a bit to make sex more comfortable
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You could try extra lubrication - I'd recommend a water based one though - especially if you're partner is wearing a condom.
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Okay. No one should have to feel pain from making love. As well as no one should feel embarrassed or guilty by asking their partner to stop hurting them. We have the right to have exactly what we want in bed, and will get it if we have a loving partner.
Here's exactly how to give someone your virginity painlessly. Write this down. IT WORKS!
Get a tube of Ambesol. You know the tooth numbing gel. All it is is Lidocain. Or another high percentage numbing gel would do. You can get a variety of them over the counter. When you're having foreplay, Squeeze out the entire tube onto your hymen and vaginal opening. YOu may feel a very slight sting or warming. It's supposed to be like that. Leave it on for about 20 minutes. This will numb just the opening area. Only the parts that could initially cause you pain. Your clitoris won't be numb, your g-spot won't be numb. All the things that make it pleasurable won't be numb. It will absorb into your skin. If you're worried about the gel breaking the condom, as it's oil based, then begin to make love and get the hymen breakage over with, and then wash off the ambesol (your skin will still be numb) and have him put on a fresh condom, with water based lubricant, and go for it.
Here's exactly how to give someone your virginity painlessly. Write this down. IT WORKS!
Get a tube of Ambesol. You know the tooth numbing gel. All it is is Lidocain. Or another high percentage numbing gel would do. You can get a variety of them over the counter. When you're having foreplay, Squeeze out the entire tube onto your hymen and vaginal opening. YOu may feel a very slight sting or warming. It's supposed to be like that. Leave it on for about 20 minutes. This will numb just the opening area. Only the parts that could initially cause you pain. Your clitoris won't be numb, your g-spot won't be numb. All the things that make it pleasurable won't be numb. It will absorb into your skin. If you're worried about the gel breaking the condom, as it's oil based, then begin to make love and get the hymen breakage over with, and then wash off the ambesol (your skin will still be numb) and have him put on a fresh condom, with water based lubricant, and go for it.
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NEVER EVER use medicine intended for another use unless you doctor tells you to. I can't imagine a doctor ever telling you to squirt a whole tube of Anubsol in your vagina even if it is 'to give someone your virginity'!
This is so dangerous and could really cause serious harm.
Also a penis should never enter a vagina unprotected- even for 1 second to break a hymen! This could cause pregnancy or STI infection, as the penis can release a little 'precum' before sex even starts- obviously the author of that last post knows nothing about sex or vagina's and so should NOT offer any advice!
The reason it probably hurt so much is because you are either not ready or not relaxed and aroused.
Find someone you love, have lots of foreplay with lots of lube and it maybe uncomfortable the 1st time, but not painful.
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Hey, don't give such advice! That could do so much harm.
First time hurts. A bit, a bit more, a lot, like crazy, it depends on your body and mind. Relax, use lube and go for it. I promise, it gets a lot better the next times.
First time hurts. A bit, a bit more, a lot, like crazy, it depends on your body and mind. Relax, use lube and go for it. I promise, it gets a lot better the next times.
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Your first time shouldn't hurt. If you are ready... like really ready. I suggest a lot of foreplay, attention to the nipples will help your body expand where it is necessary. Also, ask your guy to be gentle and take it super slow. Switch positions if you have to. When I lost mine I couldn't do it in missionary, too painful. Try water based lubricant as well. Every body is different... just remember to be gentle and take it slow! Hope this helped!
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plz
somebody reply..
my girl will come to my country just to give her virginity..
i need to know everything...
how to penetrate
what to do earlier..
what to tell her....
what a place should be
a bed? how should be?
it should be done in 15 min.?
or a day long experience...
write me a route to follow on
somebody reply..
my girl will come to my country just to give her virginity..
i need to know everything...
how to penetrate
what to do earlier..
what to tell her....
what a place should be
a bed? how should be?
it should be done in 15 min.?
or a day long experience...
write me a route to follow on
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I also have this same problem of pain..my boyfriend tried four times..but still hurts..i don t know why but maybe cos we did it not frequently...maybe we shouldnt expect it and just go with the flow..hehehee..but he was cruelly teasing me that i may be a virgin for a long time..he probably was very frustrated..i asked my more experience friend and she told me that for her it hurt for a week..:-((
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