Me and my girlfriend have been together for two years and at first we would always fool around at least once or twice a day. we are both generally turned on and sexual people. When we finally had sex for the first time she had the normal pains of it hurting at first, (she had only had sex one other time in her life). At first everything was going really good and when ever she got used to the pain she got on top and sat down on me and she immediately tensed up, jumped off, and started balling her eyes out. I had never had this happen with any other girl I had been with.
I am 8.5" long.
With my past girlfriends it never hurt whenever I went all the way in. with my current girlfriend every single time we have sex we start out slow, but if I accidentally go too deep she immediately tenses up and cries. I am very patient but she is not and gets mad because she loves having sex but cant stand when I go in. I am also a very jealous person and fear she might go behind my back and get with other guys that she can go a full time with. I am wondering if I am too big and just cant go in all the way or if there is something that we can do as a couple to be able to go all the way for a longer amount of time then 3 minutes. any hints, tips, positions, or advice would be greatly appreciated.
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If you only started feeling that way 1 day after having sex there is no possible way your body could register being pregnant that fast, it takes a few months for your body to register that it is pregnant, calm down, the pains might be something completely unrelated and you are just worried over nothing. But there is absolutely no way your body could register pregnancy that fast.
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Hi I have had the same issue that your girlfriend has had ever since I started having sex. I have pain that puts me into tears as well and I have 2 reasons I'm in so much pain. 1. I have a tilted uterus (it tilts towards my spine) so when a guy goes in all the way (whether hes big, average or small) it causes intense pain 2. I have Endometriosis which also causes pain during sex, Endometriosis is uterine lining growing on other organs than just in your uterus which causes internal bleeding and extreme pain. If she only has pain during sex I would lean more towards a tilted uterus but if she has pain quite a bit during the whole month then it could be Endometriosis or a combination of the 2. If she has pain during her period to the point that she is crying and cannot move she needs to be checked by an OBGYN either way she should get checked. You can't fix either of these problems all they can do is temporarily fix the problems by performing surgery, so basically your never going to be able to put it all the way in. To make it more comfortable for her I would suggest that she lay on her stomach flat and you lay kinda on top to have sex or on your sides while you enter from behind. Keep in mind though that if she is on her side the further she bends forward the more pain it will cause her and you won't get to finish, lying on her stomach avoid proping her butt up with a pillow until she is comfortable with the position. Postions to avoid: doggy style (big no no) missionary (until you can control how far you thrust) and do not do any postions that lift her legs in the air because that hurts like hell. Girl on top is doable you need to remain still though and allow her to control the depth, she needs to experiment with how deep she is comfortable with going. Please keep in mind that this is very frustrating as well but by experimenting together you can actual bring yourselves closer to eachother. Do not start thinking that she may cheat because that is just a recipe for disaster, take it slow and learn eachothers bodies and it will get easier. I hope this helps :)
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