My wife is now 25yrs old and each time we try to have sex, she cries a lot due to the pain

Guest over a year ago

pls help me, i got married last year and My wife is now 25yrs old and each time we try to have sex, she cries a lot due to the pain. Her hymen is so tough that i could not find the whole in the middle and the hymen seem like a concrete that will never break. Pls how do i get her disvirgined without her passing through 'hell' i.e surgery... is there any ointment or massage therapy which can ease her hymen??? do suggest

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kigobear97296561 over a year ago

It will b better if you break it. Its gonna hurt either way u do it by surgery or sex. Its better to get it over with if she really want to be sexually active soon. When u do it stop if the pain hurts too much and wait and let the pain subside. and start pushing when she has less pain. But make sure ur not missing the hymen. Try to keep her relax, give her something to bite on and squeeze on. I hope ths helps you. Good luck!

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sally over a year ago

Hi guest, this sounds really difficult for both of you. Has your wife seen a gynecologist? A number of things could be causing this and it may require minor surgery or some other treatment. sex should be enjoyable for both of you so it is worth going to a doctor and having this looked into. All the best.

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sally over a year ago

Just wanted to add, if you try breaking her hymen yourself the pain may cause her to develop an association between sex and pain so that her muscles tighten up and she will always find sex painful. This is called vaginismus. See a doctor. It is safer and you will get answers and know what is going on

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subscribed mark over a year ago

Why do you/she feel going to a doctor to get it fixed will be hell? It shouldn't hurt to have it taken care of surgically if that's what she needs but right now you don't even know what she needs.

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