Hey guys,Im 14,I've been with my girl-friend for 2 Years now,we make out alot,the other day,I really wanted to go further....What do you think I should do..?
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Talk to your gf about it - does she want to go further? Although 14 is young, its not adnormal to have sex at this age. If you do both decide that you want to go further, discus contraception. Practice putting on a condom before the event, so that there is no worry on the day. Take your time, and enjoy yourselves. Good luck. John
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yes I know that 14 is young but is also starting to be the norn of age to have sexual intercourse, but if a boy got a girl pregnatn at this early age, could both handle the responsibility of the child? i was 22 when my daughter was born and had a time in dealing with the change of responsibilities to her, most likely the child wound be adpoted out, but the mind never forgets.....
Now you said "make out a lot" will you tell us what that means to you?
To me it is alot of kissing, some rubbing (of the outer part of her vagina and your penis) & some exploring the others persons' body for sexual pleasures? Is this correct? and no penis to vagina contact? if you have contact, as posted in the other posting, please you a condom, she is too young by age to start birth control, and year or to longer she may wish to.
Sexual intercourse is a two way street, both of you wish to engage, but if she wished she had not, the lays trouble.....
thanks for your time and this is a important posting that all teens should read
RT
yes I know that 14 is young but is also starting to be the norn of age to have sexual intercourse, but if a boy got a girl pregnatn at this early age, could both handle the responsibility of the child? i was 22 when my daughter was born and had a time in dealing with the change of responsibilities to her, most likely the child wound be adpoted out, but the mind never forgets.....
Now you said "make out a lot" will you tell us what that means to you?
To me it is alot of kissing, some rubbing (of the outer part of her vagina and your penis) & some exploring the others persons' body for sexual pleasures? Is this correct? and no penis to vagina contact? if you have contact, as posted in the other posting, please you a condom, she is too young by age to start birth control, and year or to longer she may wish to.
Sexual intercourse is a two way street, both of you wish to engage, but if she wished she had not, the lays trouble.....
thanks for your time and this is a important posting that all teens should read
RT
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Thanks,I think I should probobly just talk to her about it,But its not just that I find her attractive,I love her.
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14 is sooo young but........If it's what the both of you want to do you need to go about it the right way. If you have a Planned Parenthood in your area, that is a good place to start. They will check her out and decide which is the best form of Birth Control.
Try to resist until you have protection. Make sure you wear a condom. I can't tell you guys to have fun, just be safe.
Try to resist until you have protection. Make sure you wear a condom. I can't tell you guys to have fun, just be safe.
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Right I have decided im going to talk to her..but...what the f**k do I say to her? ''Im really sorry but can we have sex?'' Help me if you can x thanks.
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Just tell her you would like to talk to her about having sex with her. Ask her if she feels shes ready for it, and if she aint, dont pressure her. Just be understading and put yourself in her position no matter what her answer is to you. The best thing you could do, is look at the other persons perspective first. Good look man ;-)
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well i think dat u r givin her a rush but u shud slow down until you and your girlfrien decide to have intercourse :!:
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Okay so I speak to her,and we have this long long chat,she doesnt want to tell her mom about any of it,I have no idea what to do,I kinda want her mom to know so she doesnt bite my head off when we do...
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Well I can see where shes comming from i'm 24 and i still don't tell my mum about sex but talk to her and don't do anything till your both comfortable and before you talk you may want to come up with reasons WHY you think you should tell a parent.
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