im 17 years old and i have been dating this girl for about a month now. when we hang out and are just laying down i get get a bonar and i want her so bad then we actualy try to get into have sexy and i go to put it in and before i can get it in my penis begins to go soft and i cant get it in and the mood is lost and i cant get it back and sometime she will be trying tog et it in and if it does not go soft face enough i will cum. its a vary embarassing problem and i dont know wht to do it has happened about 3 times now. i masterbate once or twice a weak maybe 3 times. can some one please help me and give me some ideas on what to do
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Hi,
How nervous are you about having sex?
I think this is the problem that you are having. Nervousness affects all guys, you can't perform that way. Are you afraid of something? Pregnancy, STD's, that you won't perform well? You know what I'm saying.
You need to relax and I know that's easy to say. Just keep talking and getting to know her, don't rush.
Are you using a condom? It can actually help. Have her help you put it on and then you won't have so much, STD's, pregnancy, to worry about.
These are common worries for all men.
Hope that helps, let us know how it goes.
How nervous are you about having sex?
I think this is the problem that you are having. Nervousness affects all guys, you can't perform that way. Are you afraid of something? Pregnancy, STD's, that you won't perform well? You know what I'm saying.
You need to relax and I know that's easy to say. Just keep talking and getting to know her, don't rush.
Are you using a condom? It can actually help. Have her help you put it on and then you won't have so much, STD's, pregnancy, to worry about.
These are common worries for all men.
Hope that helps, let us know how it goes.
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What you have is performance anxiety. This is a tricky thing to deal with. Performance anxiety happens to shy introverted people a lot, because they tend to worry too much. What you need to do right now is to unplug yourself, in much the same way as one would reboot a pc or a modem. Tell your gf in the face that you think you have erectile dysfunction, and it is not her fault. Ask her if it is ok right now to just hold hands and cuddle, rather than have sex. Refrain from all form of sexual activity (including masturbation) for a while. Wait till your sexual tension has buillt up to a point where you most certainly will ejaculate in a wet dream if gone any further. Now is the time to do it.
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thanks you i really aprraciate the input. my girl friend is a vary understanding chick i know she will not force me into doing anything i dont wanna but it sounds like i have to work out some sh*t
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