I think that my age is making this problem a lot worse than it should be. I've failed twice. one I assumed was because she was, well, uninviting. The other isnt a bad catch at all. I couldn't get it up when I needed to and even when I did it wasn't hard enough. Please spare me those teenage sex lectures, I would have used a rubber both times. I'm really afraid about my girlfriend...shes been with one guy before...and i know it will be important to her...i dont want to fail her. due to my age i cant just go out and get supplements and i cant exactly break this problem to my parents or doctor...
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Mate - don't panic. I assume that you can get an erection by yourself, when you masturbate? If so the chances are that this is just nerves. Have you ever had sex before? This happened to me the first time I tried having sex. The more I worried about it the worse it became. Next time that you are with your gf, agree not to have penetrative sex, but just use your hands and mouths to pleasure each other. Setting this rule before you start takes the pressure off you to perform. You can make each other cum, but just don't feel the need to penetrate her. After doing that a couple of times, get her to put a condom on you and masturbate you till you cum. Then take it the final stage and have full sex. I hope she is supportive and that you will get through this together. Good luck. John
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