I am 16 and I have a good sex life with my bf although he has always been on top. He really wants me to go on top and so do I!! the thing is...i dont no what to do. he understands i am not 'experienced' at sex but i dont want to look like an id**t and totally ruin our sex. I want to be good at it and make it feel good. I hope people understand what i mean!! please help me xxxxxx
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its pretty much the same as the guy being on top!
you can lie on top of your bf or sit on top of him and you either move back and forth or up and down respectively!
you'll soon get the hang of it and if he understands he'll be able to help you out - just enjoy yourselves!
sex isn't about looking like a porn movie, its about having fun and if you can laugh at each other your sex life will be even better!
you can lie on top of your bf or sit on top of him and you either move back and forth or up and down respectively!
you'll soon get the hang of it and if he understands he'll be able to help you out - just enjoy yourselves!
sex isn't about looking like a porn movie, its about having fun and if you can laugh at each other your sex life will be even better!
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to make a long story short do what feels good to you! I know when I (a guy) am on top I'm doing what feels good for me. Maybe your guy just wants you to experiment and find out (and let him see) what kind of motions work for you. From what I can tell there are four different movements.
1you can bounce, self explanatory. just kind of bounce up and down in a sitting position.
2you can rock. My ex loved this. she just kind of rocked her body back and fourth on her G-Spot.
3you can grind. This was my favorite and probably takes the most skill. my ex before my ex did this once and it was just amazing. Slightly leaning forward she slid her hips forward and backward, kind of like a sweeping/grinding motion.
4you can lean forward and out a little giving him some room to continue doing all the work... and he thought he was getting a break.
There ya go.
PS 16 is too young to be having sex.
1you can bounce, self explanatory. just kind of bounce up and down in a sitting position.
2you can rock. My ex loved this. she just kind of rocked her body back and fourth on her G-Spot.
3you can grind. This was my favorite and probably takes the most skill. my ex before my ex did this once and it was just amazing. Slightly leaning forward she slid her hips forward and backward, kind of like a sweeping/grinding motion.
4you can lean forward and out a little giving him some room to continue doing all the work... and he thought he was getting a break.
There ya go.
PS 16 is too young to be having sex.
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thanx for ur replies :-)
but how is 16 too young to be having sex when it is legal???
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but how is 16 too young to be having sex when it is legal???
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As long as you are comfortable with what you are doing, being 16 isn't a problem!
People always make such a big deal about sex and once you've done it a million times it isn't a big deal anymore!
just remember stay safe and use protection and above all have fun!
People always make such a big deal about sex and once you've done it a million times it isn't a big deal anymore!
just remember stay safe and use protection and above all have fun!
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Pardon my preaching, but because of the potential consequences of sex, plus the emotional side of it, 16 is really too young--"legal" or otherwise--to be having sex. This might sound old-fashioned, but I know from experience that a healthy marriage is really the best place for sex and it's worth the wait. :-)
That being said, I suppose I'll address your concern--I agree w/ just about everything that was said concerning your "on top" position. There's not really a wrong way to go about it.
That being said, I suppose I'll address your concern--I agree w/ just about everything that was said concerning your "on top" position. There's not really a wrong way to go about it.
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I think that 16 is most popular age for young adults to have sex, they get the freedom with a car, feel more comfortable with them selfs and the other sex, and just start then
Yes they may not really know the emotional to intercouse, but they need to learn this, as it is a big part of a relationship as they are older, I was 16 and my 1 g/f was 15, she had been self-masturbating for about 10 years, so it was a progressition to sex, we never have penutration, but oreal and a lot of rubbing, then my ex wife was only 16 & I 19, had a child by 18.
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Yes they may not really know the emotional to intercouse, but they need to learn this, as it is a big part of a relationship as they are older, I was 16 and my 1 g/f was 15, she had been self-masturbating for about 10 years, so it was a progressition to sex, we never have penutration, but oreal and a lot of rubbing, then my ex wife was only 16 & I 19, had a child by 18.
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Technically 16 is not legal. It is still considered statutory rape even if you are a willing participant. He can go to jail/prison for it. Sorry, but you are really too young to be having sex.
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As for the legal issues, it's up to the state. Like, in mine, the age of consent is sixteen.
As for every other issue, it's none of these people's f*****g business whether or not you're "too young".
If you want to do it (and aren't being pressured or forced), it's up to you and you alone. If you feel like sixteen is the right age for you, go for it. It's NO ONE ELSE'S BUSINESS BUT YOUR OWN AND THE PERSON YOU'RE WITH.
Seriously, if you feel like OH GOLLY YOU GOTTA BE MARRIED AND JUNK TO HAVE SEX, ya'll can suck my penis.
I'm an educated, healthy twenty-year-old female who's engaged to a guy I screwed the first time I met him. I'm not emotionally screwed up. I'm happy.
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Only if he is over 18 and she calls rape. If she wants to have sex who are we to judge her? Chill.
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