how to cum late while having sex?

jazzy71145109 over a year ago

hi im a guy of 20 years old i lost my virginity 2 days ago.but the problem im facing is i cant properly f**k my girlfriend beacause i cum too early even i had sex with her twice but cant help.is it some kind of disease or i have some problem plz help me out or tell me something so i can enjoy sex wth her :-( thanks

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BedsonTrudeau18639 over a year ago

This is a common problem for young men, especially those new to sex. You may just have to get used to having sex for a little while before you feel completely comfortable. Communication is the best thing to do in this case. Communicate with your girlfriend. Tell each other what it is that you would like. Use this as an opportunity for greater sexual enjoyment that occurs outside of actual intercourse, such as foreplay.

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Guest over a year ago

A trick i do is masterbation before having sex. If you do it in the morning.. then have sex later that day, you will last a lot longer. :-D

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Atsinafe omanga145376 over a year ago

try and see if you can relex your mind and take away anxiety before enbarking on sex. XD

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hamid45 over a year ago

This is how I delt with this issue and win everytime, I am 45, I make sure by playing with her/ rubbing her inside with my finger, she will cum first, by then I will be ready and she will cum the 2nd time with me being inside her, again..... this is a time consuming effort but both parties go home fully satisfied and tired.. you just need to convince her that let's give it a shot, if she does it once she wants this method going forward and you need to hold on to your self waiting for that moment........granteed

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Handytim155729 over a year ago

***edited by moderator*** ** inappropriate posting** int he morning may help, but its ALSO good to relearn your idesas ON masturbation..ome can 'teach' themselves on lasting longer...rather that stroking to get off fast, try slower strokes, then as you feel the 'steam rising', ease off a couple times

Mental imagery helps too

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Guest over a year ago

So far you have some pretty good advice from other members. Seriously, it sounds as though you lack a little confidence in your abilities. Hopefully it will be settled with the course of time, on its own sooner or later or sooner if you read some books or watch some videos (personally I really enjoyed the Lover's Guide found by ***edited by moderator*** web addresses not allowed), cause there is nothing wrong about it, you really can learn sex . So far, in case you aim at your coming later, the best solution is masturbation before sex. If you want to make her come faster, foreplay is gonna be your best friend. The intimacy having your two bodies pressed up against each other, breathing heavy and feeling a sense or euphoria. Its about taking your time and not rushing the sex. I wish you have fun;)

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Guest over a year ago

Try stop and start method.

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Guest over a year ago

I'D agree with hamid man

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Mk9988228691 over a year ago

If anything, see a doctor if it a big problem that hasn't been fixed yet.

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bula over a year ago

breathe through your mouth, relax your as****e lol dont clinch it, relax all muscles beneath the waistline, try counting your strokes and sicronizing it with the breathing, or just cum on the bed and go at it again, when i was 20 i used to go down on her and masturbate till i came, then i would go directly inside her, its better for her and it was better for me as well, just dont let those thoughts take over you

peace

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Guest over a year ago

Wen on the verge of Cummings during sex, it will be very helpful to slow the speed of your stoke then your cum will go back down the drain

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Guest over a year ago

It is quite simple actually, coming from my experience, when I to was very young (16), I lost my virginity, now I am 22, I used to cum pretty quick. It is best that you masturbate before sex to cum later, use two condoms instead of one, that is a major method, it becomes impossible to cum with just one condom on , think what will happen with two. During sex, for her enjoyment, finger her and then start properly f*****g with your D, if you still feel insecure and think you will cum early, get your mind off of things that turn you on, while having sex, think of something to turn you off, you will not cum until and unless you are thinking of arousing stuff. Still, if you have problems, have sex alot of times, that should also help. If the problem persists, co sult a doctor, it could be a disease. PS, Males take about 6 minutes to orgasm, while females take 10-20 minutes to orgasm. So if you are not able to pleasure her very well, do not get upset, you will slowly and steadily master the technique of sex. Use positions and foreplay as well to spice things up, for females, it is not only about the sex that make them orgasm, the foreplay plays a very important role. You may use tools while having sex, but do not use too many, she might think of you as a sadist.

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DANIEL over a year ago

HI , I AM DANIEL FROM INDIA, I GIVE U THE IDEA FOR SPERMS COME OUT LATE ... I TRIED MANY TIMES ITS REALLY GOOD.. JUST WASH UR PENNIES IN THE COLD WATER , BEFORE STARTED SEX . THEN THE SPERM WILL RELEASE 10 MINS LATER .. SO U CAN ENJOY THE SEX...

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Guest over a year ago

hi i cum early during sex by early i mean 10or15 min

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