Hey , i am 16 and i feel as if i want to have sex but i really dont know if i am ready for it, can anyone help me to make a decision? Please Help! :)
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Well having sex is a very big deal espcially as your only 16, sometimes it feels like the right thing to do but it really isin't. My advise to you would be if you are with somebody you love then i'd say its the right thing to do, as you only lose your vaginity once. I hope this helps.
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If u really wanna have sex at this age, remember, r u ready to take the risks like a sudden pregnancy? How u would handle it if u r destiny to get pregnant at ur 1st time sex? Think about the future pal!
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You should wait until you are married to have sex. There are countless reasons why you should wait until marriage.
- Men will respect you more. (A man will like and respect a girl more if she waits until marriage, and while you date the guy he will test you to see if you will really wait, and every time you just have to say no. Each time you say no, the more respect he will have for you.)
- What if you have sex outside of marriage and get pregnant? (The man could leave you, say its not his, the two of you can break up. If you guys do break up, just so you know, there are not very many men who will date a girl who already has a child. Of course you might believe in abortion, but if you do get an abortion you will have to carry around the guilt for ages and then when you do meet a nice guy, you will feel obligated to tell him about the fact that you had an abortion.
- What man is going to divorce a woman that he is married to just because she had his baby? (No man will divorce a woman because she has created a child of his, because he loves her.)
- Waiting until marriage to have sex is a win-win situation.
- Not waiting for marriage to have sex is a loose-loose on so many different levels.
- There are a lot more reasons why you should wait for sex, but these are the most important in my opinion.
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Its hard to help you on this one because it is different for everybody and it is personal and depends on so many things. But, only you can make this decision yourself. You are 16, so i cant say you are too young, some people want to wait until they are older, some until they get married, some until they fall in love, its a personal decision when to lose your virginity and this could also include your values. Good luck in making it !!
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Ask yourself if you really want to do it, and just if the guy does. Think about the consequences too, what if you do end up pregnant? are you ready to handle a baby? and most importantly, make sure you have protection. If you're going through foreplay, and you're not stopping to have any second thoughts about doing it, go for it! just dont be worried, or you'll think about the pain. :)
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