Im a 13 year old boy and I want sex really badly,
are there any ways other than masturation to
relieve this urge.
are there any ways other than masturation to
relieve this urge.
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Hi, buddy
You want to have sex because you are in puberty, with just 13, you want to experiment new sensations, but at your age you'd better hold on. Sometimes we want to do something because of what other people say they have done, or just because of a challenge, but sometimes teens 'make-up', lie, more when it reffers to sex. I have a brother who is 13 and i think sex is not a good idea for him, yet, because he could be hurt.
I sugest you to be careful with what you do.
By the way, i'm 18 and I haven't had sex, and I don't worry about it.
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You want to have sex because you are in puberty, with just 13, you want to experiment new sensations, but at your age you'd better hold on. Sometimes we want to do something because of what other people say they have done, or just because of a challenge, but sometimes teens 'make-up', lie, more when it reffers to sex. I have a brother who is 13 and i think sex is not a good idea for him, yet, because he could be hurt.
I sugest you to be careful with what you do.
By the way, i'm 18 and I haven't had sex, and I don't worry about it.
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jorge_chen1975 wrote:
That is without question the worst, stupidest advice I have ever read or heard. The bible is not going to do 1 single, solitary thing to relieve the GOD given functions he created when he made mankind. Reading the bible will do absolutely ZERO in terms of reducing, removing or releasing the raging hormones that boys and girls experience during the onset of puberty.
Western civilization has sexuality so perverted and twisted that a VERY large majority of "christians" have a deeply twisted perspective on sex and sexuality in general.
To answer the question of the original poster the safest, healthest way to deal with these drives is to masturbate. It is a NORMAL thing for boys and girls to do when they are going through puberty.
Engaging in sexual relationships at a young age is a bad idea because you are not emotionally or financially ready to take on the responsibilites that come with a life long committed relationship.
One thing to keep in mind and may seem trivial right now but wont be when you get older... you can only give your virginity to someone once. Once its given, can never be taken back. In my humble opinion, you are best served to wait as long as you can.
There are even synthetic vigina's and penises that one can purchase and they feel very close to the real thing. With such aids, you do not have to worry about sexually transmitted diseases or unwanted pregnancies.
read the bible
That is without question the worst, stupidest advice I have ever read or heard. The bible is not going to do 1 single, solitary thing to relieve the GOD given functions he created when he made mankind. Reading the bible will do absolutely ZERO in terms of reducing, removing or releasing the raging hormones that boys and girls experience during the onset of puberty.
Western civilization has sexuality so perverted and twisted that a VERY large majority of "christians" have a deeply twisted perspective on sex and sexuality in general.
To answer the question of the original poster the safest, healthest way to deal with these drives is to masturbate. It is a NORMAL thing for boys and girls to do when they are going through puberty.
Engaging in sexual relationships at a young age is a bad idea because you are not emotionally or financially ready to take on the responsibilites that come with a life long committed relationship.
One thing to keep in mind and may seem trivial right now but wont be when you get older... you can only give your virginity to someone once. Once its given, can never be taken back. In my humble opinion, you are best served to wait as long as you can.
There are even synthetic vigina's and penises that one can purchase and they feel very close to the real thing. With such aids, you do not have to worry about sexually transmitted diseases or unwanted pregnancies.
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if i were you i would just carry on masturbating. u are definately to young, you dont want to end up being used and abused. but its for you to decide. if you do decide to have sex dont forget to use a condom u are not to young to get a girl pregnant or to catch an sti.
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ok so im 13 almost 14. female. i was just wondering when a good age is to start having sex. there is this guy he is a couple years older (16) but thats ok right? ? ?
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it's perfectly normal. i'm guessing that you're in the first stages of puberty which makes your hormones go a bit crazy. masturbastion is a really good way to ease your urge. people say that masturbating is bad for you, but it's just a rumour, and it's perfectly natural. the fact that you know that you're too young for sex is a really good thing and you're doing a lot better than a lot of people! so good on ya and keep going, you're teen years are going to be some of the hardest and most confusing, but also the best!
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yes 16 is the legal age to have sex. if u are under 16 u are still considered a minor.
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just get a bf/gf and work it out... those scared to make a move will keep waiting... while everyone else grows and learn. By the time you loose it you might think its overated anyway... but those who get in the game earlier becomes better lover better at handling opposite sex, its all about experience and confidence!
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I'm a 13 year old girl and I really want sex too. I've asked a lot of people if this is strange or anything but they said it is cometary normal to think about having it as we are going through pubity and it's our hormones. I know it isn't legal for us to have sex yet but I don't think it matters. A lot of people have lost theirs when they were only about 11. We are very young and before you properly have sex you need to learn about the consequences and what could happen and about girls periods this is very important.
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i have the same thing going on but i am to afraid to finger myself, for enjoyment. if my mom found out i would be dead.
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im 13 (girl) and every boy ik tht wants to hve sex but hve sense not to just tlk to there gf r video chat...it might not help u but its just an idea.. if u hve a gf
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good on you to no that ur not to have sex yet but try new thing to take your mind off sex!:-)
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I'm 14 and have the same problem. But it really makes me mad when people say "it's because other people say its cool" but the truth is that we just won't to.not because people say to but because we just won't to.
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im 13 (boy) and i found other things to fill my needs with and i am sticking to it for now cuz its the right thing to do, i dont want no kid
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