okay so I met this guy about a year ago and I didn't like him at first but then he came on to mr and made the first move and kissed me and I really liked It but it was my first kiss so it was obviously special and so we kept kissing and we made out almost every night. But I couldn't tell anyone because my parents are really strict and are even sending me to a Christian school and they don't like the guy because he's black and I don't really care what they think about him. But I think I'm ready to have sex with him and I'm a virgin and im 14 do you think I should and these feelings are for real or am I just caught up in the moment and I should wait because this if The ONLY guy I've ever even kissed? Oh and also my mom is putting me on birth control but she has mo idea I'm with this guy...
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Lets' face it: you are 14.
Anybody will tell you that it is highly illegal to have sex at 14: it would be called "statutory rape" (even if you initiated it!) and your boyfriend could very well end in jail. Is it that what you want?
Anybody will tell you that it is highly illegal to have sex at 14: it would be called "statutory rape" (even if you initiated it!) and your boyfriend could very well end in jail. Is it that what you want?
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It is not statutory rape if they are both underage.
Only you can know if you are really ready to have sex with him. However if you do want an opinion I would say not to just yet. You seem to be caught up in the feeling and from your post a bit of rebellion as well. If he is pressuring you and continually asking to have sex then I would say definitely no. Trust me when you are ready you won't even have to question if you should do it or not cause you'll just know. Right now I don't think you should.
Only you can know if you are really ready to have sex with him. However if you do want an opinion I would say not to just yet. You seem to be caught up in the feeling and from your post a bit of rebellion as well. If he is pressuring you and continually asking to have sex then I would say definitely no. Trust me when you are ready you won't even have to question if you should do it or not cause you'll just know. Right now I don't think you should.
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i totally understand... however, having sex for the first time should be something that you WANT to do. i dont know the real reasons why you want to have sex with him, but i would double check to make sure that they are sincere. no offence or anything, but your parents sound kinda racist if they dont like him because he is black. they should respect who you like and put their judgments of others tucked away, if he makes you happy then they should be happy for u!!! if your not sure if your ready or not then most likly your not. you shouldnt have to heasitate on wheather or not you want to have sex if you really honestly and truly want to have sex.
Good luck with whatever you choose! ill b supporting u :-D :-D
Good luck with whatever you choose! ill b supporting u :-D :-D
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at 14 yo, your hormones are kicking in, and the desire for sex is strong.
to get satisfaction from this relationship, try letting him masutrbate you to orgasm first. if you are able to reach your climax yet.
some younger girls cant seem to reach their sexual peak until they are older.
let him suck your nipples and play with your clitoris for about 20 mins. usually by then most women will reach their climax and have their orgasm.
then you can satisfy him for his releif of sexual tension.
that way you wont be having sexual intercourse.
(you can wait til you are older for that.)
but he will enjoy watching you as you reach your climax.
hope it works out OK for you
to get satisfaction from this relationship, try letting him masutrbate you to orgasm first. if you are able to reach your climax yet.
some younger girls cant seem to reach their sexual peak until they are older.
let him suck your nipples and play with your clitoris for about 20 mins. usually by then most women will reach their climax and have their orgasm.
then you can satisfy him for his releif of sexual tension.
that way you wont be having sexual intercourse.
(you can wait til you are older for that.)
but he will enjoy watching you as you reach your climax.
hope it works out OK for you
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